"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Philosophical dilemma . . .

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Hi guys . . .

. . . Just something that's kind of been on my mind for a while . :crazy: . .I consider myself a pretty confident and staightforward person, and seldom have issues about speaking my mind . . .

. . . . . . . .Moreover . .I actually enjoy telling some women that I find them pretty / attractive in a playful but sincere manner . . . . . .

. . . .What's yr take on this . . .Does that damage yr chances . . .I simply see too many guys hover around pretty girls and try build themselves up et.c which normally involves a lot of bull and does not usually work, as girls can normally see right through that IMHO . ..

Is it not easier and more fun to go in guns balzing and see how she respopnds and see what can penetrate their defences????

. . . .. . Answers on a postcard please!:up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Being straight forward works for me too. Just be sure not to just use complements in hopes that it alone will gain their interest.
 
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Find things about her that make her unique. If you're going to compliment her, do it regarding something that every guy within a 1/4 mile radius hasn't already picked up on. Show that you have some empathy and insight.

For example, tell her you admire her perspective on something, or that she's clever. Or even that she has a sensual way of doing xxxx. Not that she has beautiful eyes or hair or you like the way her butt wiggles when she walks. (NOTE: you CAN use those once you have the right rapport...sparingly)
 
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Thanks bud . . .

Don't worry please . .I have no moral connundrum about being rude or offending women either . . .The most important thing is that they don't end up feeling neutral about me . . .

. . . Its just I think going about it in a round about way is a sign of weakness and is a sure loser . . .Its a question of finding a woman, looking for the right signals and going for it . . .And more importantly acknowledge the fact that most women are unreciprical and unmoved . . .

. . . . .:rockon:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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squirrels said:
F the signals. Just go for it.
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Maybe yr right , maybe yr wrong . . .But I feel women that are interested will "allow" you to identify them . . .:rock:
 
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