"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Philadelphia represent!

Lush

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Yo,

I saw in my thread that there are alot of guys in the Philly area on here and I think we need to start discussing the general strategy of getting laid in the PHL. Personally, I've found more luck in the surrounding areas - The burbs. No idea why, but it seems like girls have their guards up more in the city. Then again, I don't go out that much in the city. This is something I'm trying to change. My newest attempt is going to be to rock a suit and start hitting some of the really trendy clubs in the Rittenhouse/Center City area. Like I said in my thread, being a big dude, I get mistaken for being on the Eagles/Phillies/Flyers all the god damn time, and wearing a suit will only enhance the fact that people believe I'm somebody.

No idea how well this is going to work, but I'm gonna post back here when I notice something. I think we all need to get together for a little happier hour at some point. I suggest someplace low key with alot of space. The Lair has used Dark Horse Pub before, but I think we're starting to get a reputation there that I'd like to avoid. Any other suggestions? We should do happy hour and then hit some of the clubs and bars.

Also, go ahead and list the places you like to go and what kinds of success you've had there. Personally, being as I've spent most of my time in Finnigans Wake, I've gotten quite a few numbers and a couple of make outs there. My personal best was taking a girl home (I live like 9 blocks away) and having her back to her friends before closing time. That was a result of just having the balls to ask plus a whole lot of luck. Past that, I've not had a whole lot of luck in the city. Brownies in Ardmore on Wednesday nights its AWESOME! Dress like a frat boy...make sure your Tshirt has something cool on it (Hot Topic?) and you're pretty much in. Girls are really friendly there and it's PACKED! It can be really intimidating, so don't feel bad if for the first time you just freeze up. You'll slowly get used to it. This is the bar I go to when I have horrible, horrible approach anxiety. I have so many funny stories about that spot.

So with the holidays here, I figure all of our schedules are ****ed. I may be able to make it out this coming Saturday, but I can't make a guarantee. I think my PM box just got activated, so I'll make sure to hit some of you up for real names + phone numbers.

Hope to meet you guys around,

Lush.

WOLRD ****ING CHAMPIONS!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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anyone else?

south jersey/philly here.
 

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I'm new to the area so getting with a wing would be fun. I'm 29, asian, can dance, very educated. Holla at yo boy.
 

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if ur trying to find asian hot spots i can help u with that. im asian as well and a native of the area.
 

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Actually I'm fine with any spots (asian, white, hispanic, etc). I'm just looking for a good wingman. All my friends lack game and they can ****block without knowing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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im down to chill, just let me know ahead of time. i'm not the ****blocking type so its all good.

you from philly? in the center city/university city area almost everyday.
 

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AAAgent,

I'm from the North of Philly, but can make it into Philly anytime.
 

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I'm from Philly- but in Miami right now. Be back at the start of Feb. Will consider something then.
 

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chinese/lunar new years this weekend i think. there are a bunch of parties goin on but i'm not so sure i'm going to go out. i'm very tight on money ever since that $700 phone bill with my ex from a month of so ago. im debating whether or not to go out this weekend.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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next Friday or Saturday will be good for me.
 

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we still meetin up tonight or this weekend?
 

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I was waiting for ya, but made plans last night. Let's meet up next week THURS or FRI. Tell me location and time to meet.
 

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I'm back in Philly.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I live in the city- so I can do either night. I don't want to stay out late on a Thursday though- I have to get up early on weekdays.
 

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me too.

blue martini? paradigm? mint? suggestions guys.
 

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I have to get up early too, but THURS works best for me. I have better luck on the weeknights anyway.

I'm not familiar with those places. Just tell me what to wear (I'm very adaptable).
 

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that's olde city.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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