That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ad hominem attacks are not an argument. This is her right as a parent. Meanwhile people are starving, being raped, and murdered. You have any empathy for them?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Based on what evidence?
Should police devote the same amount of resources towards petty theft as they do for violent crimes?
Just a comment on today's culture. Wanting to change your gender identity is PC. We're told we not only have to accept and support it, we should celebrate it and be proud of it. Meanwhile (as seen in the OP's story), raising your child withhis/her original gender has no such protections.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
here is the thing you don't, would I care not I don't, would I sign something like this? I would
I usually try to avoid senseless conflicts in everyday life as much as online yet your comment is something that goes beyond stupidity and cowardy at the same time, its really hard to disgust me but somehow you managed with a single line.
The kid might as well be raped and murdered. His parent wants to force him to change his sex, before he's developed enough to make that decision for himself. If this happens imagine how it will be as he grows and matures, one day he realizes he's still male, but his own mother mutilated his reproductive organs. Might drive him to suicide, so he might as well have been murdered too.
Fvck no! It's severe abuse. Let your mother cut your d!ck off, dress you in women's clothes and call you "Luna". Let's see how you like that.
This is a simple diversion. Of course we have empathy for them, but that's not what this fvcking thread is about.
Yes, you have to accept other people’s choice (or for their children) which gender to identify or do as the please. That’s their right.
Spare the crocodile tears and fake outrage. “Nothing we can do” about all the homelessness, hunger, and poverty going on right here in our own cities and country... but you know some one else’s sex change really should raise our collective blood pressure.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yes sir, point out their utter hypocrisy. Superbly done.
Homelessness and poverty are mostly lifestyle choices. So no, there's nothing we can do about it.
What if someone would change your sex without your consent?
Yeah, it's one thing for individuals to be confused about their gender identity or whatever. It's another thing entirely to set about creating them.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I agree. If you read in the article its say the mom isnt even the biological mother of the boys. If I were the dad, I would either pay someone to murder the mom, or I would do it myself. He really has no more options.
You hold such a scumbag opinion. Its disgusting, immoral, and idiotic.
A scumbag insult from someone who supports Trump is hilarious and hypocritical.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
