"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pet Names

biker_gixxer

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Alright fellas, I stumbled upon a great pet name that all women enjoy to be called. No, not 'dirty little girl', that's for a different kind of post. If you ever find yourself wanting to call a girl 'baby', 'sweetie', or whatever else you can think of, but you're not sure what to use, try using 'kitten'. I know, it probably sounds dumb or corny, but trust me fellas, the girls love it.
One girl in an email came out and said 'i love to be called that'.

Here's a story that just happened yesterday...

I was emailing this HB10, busting on her, throwing C&F at her, etc. She was putting up a fight, so I decided ‘o.k., this girl obviously wants to verbally spar with me, so let’s get it on’. She continued to test me by saying things like ‘you’re not very obedient’. Oh hell no, this girl just f***ed up. I laid into her real good, she had no chance. At the end of our ‘emailing’ (she’s far from me and I was bored at work), I said ‘I think I’m going to call you kitten (I said it because she made some reference to her being a tiger or something. Whatever girl), I hope you don’t mind, if you do, to bad, get used to it’. When we finished up, she signed her email ‘kitty’. Yep, That’s what I thought.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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saki

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Originally posted by Jimbo2k
Whats with all the email-chumps these days
You can assume that most guys playing the email game are either 1. Married 2. in a relationship trying to find something better or 3. bored at work or a combination of these. I fall into the married and bored at work category. If I was single, it would be like Disciple said, dont waste your time on emails, keep them to a minimum of 2-3 emails and then set up to close for the date. Which makes perfectly good sense being that the longer you email a chick, the more your odds go down of hooking up. dates=action, email=waste of time and more chances to fvck up. On the flip side, email is a good alternative to the bar scene pickups and can also ease the awkwardness of the first initial impression. Email can be useful for practicing your DJ skills when you are stuck at work, which is the reason I use it.
 

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Email can be useful for practicing your DJ skills when you are stuck at work, which is the reason I use it.

Exactly. This is where I fall in...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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