You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
My initial feelings toward her were "friends" and just didnt think i would be dating her. The last 4 or 5 girls ive dated have been atleast 7's for looks ,but honestly have turned out to be cold, boring, or arrogant *****es. This girl im dating now is awesome. We started out as friends and i kinda just fell into a relationship with her recently. She has a wonderful personality, is smart, thinks on the same intellectual level as me, and seems pretty outgoing. I really enjoy her company. Then my dad the other night was telling me about how he just didnt picture her the way he thought. He had been used to me bringing home pretty smokin blondes and such.....lol I told him, you know what though them blondes and pretty girls just didnt have a really good personality. I dont know what it is but this 6 to me just feels like a good LTR material. Oh another thing, when we kiss it is out of this world. She is the best kisser i have ever had. Cant wait to find out how she is in bed I guess what im trying to say is looks arent always everything. Personality means so much more and is something that lasts too. If you can get both then the much better, but its hard to find. Me i feel pretty damn happy with my new girl even though shes only a 6 or so.