"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Atom Smasher
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Ryan
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very interesting.
Ryan
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I am liking the new forum redesign!
Rainman4707
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Anyway..I split with my GF now for about 8 weeks, so no sex. I masturbated one week after the split, but personally i'd rather shag a woman, even find a woman to do it for me.
I've have'nt had a release now for about seven weeks.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
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No fap is due to the fact that if you train your mind to masterbation for sexual release instead of having sex you will lose the drive to have sex with a woman. So you'll get horny and jag off instead of having sex with a woman. There are too many men on this board sexless or near sexless who probably are fapping to porn instead of fvcking.
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mrgoodstuff
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There are many affected like this. Also looking at the images in the screen decrease their desire in the real life thing.
KingofPuss
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Up until a couple weeks ago I was getting laid nearly every day. So no beating it for maybe a whole month. But the last seven days I'm unable to get any because of my living situation, so I'd say once a day.
Vantagepoint34
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Hey! I've seen a court case about a guy how was sneaking behind his girls back just to get one day a week. I agree with @KingofPuss One month every day is ideal. From my district baseball teams advice they would say once every two weeks. They were short one from States. Major leagues. Recommend once every two weeks...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
KingofPuss
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I actually heard every seventh day is the best for testosterone production, assuming you're not having any sex. Apparently on the 7th day your test levels can go up to 130% but on that 8th day they plummet back down. Food for thought. I don't really buy into the no fap thing, I think it's ridiculous
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My balls were hurting to much a couple weeks ago so i had to masturbate.
I've had to fap twice in the last month.
Ryan
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did you do the poll?
Rainman4707
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Dont think i did because my answer would have been 0, but the zero option has "i rarely feel the need" attached to it.
I do "feel the need", but choose not to masturabte much.
Rainman4707
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My balls are hurting tonight & feel like watermelons. I am going to have to lower my standards A LOT to get a release.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
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Hav3 sex. How this world works is when u take care of yourself it will reward u. Have sex with someone less than fine. Itll help. Fvck her all week if you can.
mrgoodstuff
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Fapping is indeed weakness. Like i said strip club better. The virtual thing is a escape running away from the problem.
lamath
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Go to the strip club then go to a bar after.
That will make you want to get some and remove some approach anxity
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.