"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Personal issue with sarging

Michael Chief

Michael Chief

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Ok so I tried sarging this 2 set
but for some reason I couldn't gather the balls to do it
I have NO problems sarging when i'm inebriated
WTF?

Does anyone have any ideas on how I can get the same fearlessness of approach when I'm sober as if I had a couple drinks?

It's not the fear of rejection that got me. I don't fear rejection. I don't even know what was stopping me. It's not the lack of an opener. I had an opener. I really can't explain where my anxiety was coming from.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Michael Chief

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well i was waiting for the 2 set to sit down after theyve ordered their yogurt (its some weird upscale yogurt cafe...which also made me feel a bit out of my element) cuz i was planning on approaching them and then sitting with them

when they sat down a lot of minutes had already passed
 
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Most time I hear guys talk about wanting to approach and not they have some plan in their head like this. It seems to paralyze people.

Just go for it. While they were in line ask what is good or something. As soon as you start hatching plans and drawing diagrams in the war room you're screwed.

gRiM999 said:
well i was waiting for the 2 set to sit down after theyve ordered their yogurt (its some weird upscale yogurt cafe...which also made me feel a bit out of my element) cuz i was planning on approaching them and then sitting with them

when they sat down a lot of minutes had already passed
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