Personal issue with sarging

[Michael Chief]

Ok so I tried sarging this 2 set
but for some reason I couldn't gather the balls to do it
I have NO problems sarging when i'm inebriated
WTF?

Does anyone have any ideas on how I can get the same fearlessness of approach when I'm sober as if I had a couple drinks?

It's not the fear of rejection that got me. I don't fear rejection. I don't even know what was stopping me. It's not the lack of an opener. I had an opener. I really can't explain where my anxiety was coming from.

 

[Michael Chief]

well i was waiting for the 2 set to sit down after theyve ordered their yogurt (its some weird upscale yogurt cafe...which also made me feel a bit out of my element) cuz i was planning on approaching them and then sitting with them

when they sat down a lot of minutes had already passed

 

[On Point]

Most time I hear guys talk about wanting to approach and not they have some plan in their head like this. It seems to paralyze people.

Just go for it. While they were in line ask what is good or something. As soon as you start hatching plans and drawing diagrams in the war room you're screwed.

well i was waiting for the 2 set to sit down after theyve ordered their yogurt (its some weird upscale yogurt cafe...which also made me feel a bit out of my element) cuz i was planning on approaching them and then sitting with them

when they sat down a lot of minutes had already passed

 

[Michael Chief]

so yall are basically telling me to be as impulsive as possible