"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Perhaps AFCs arent as bad

S0LID

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Ok theres this guy in my college course. He liked this girl in another class, shes about a 8/10. He asked 1 of the guys in out class to ask the girl for her number. She gave got his number, and he got hers. They still havnt spoke in person, and I think hes txt her, she txt back. Now their meeting tonight :eek:

He is a big AFC as he will txt her like mad after they meet. I got a feeling though they will get together.

So... The best thing to do is to take chances?

Any opinions guys?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sardaukar

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Being an AFC is living without dignity. Would you eat your own **** in a desperate attempt not to starve?

I think that just because this guy got a frickin number you think he's the man. Christ! He hasn't even gone halfway there yet! Hasn't even reached the stage of blowoffs, hasn't even got the GUTS to approach a girl he likes, probably might not even know how to arouse her! Would he know how to deal with competition, from guys who are also 8s or 10s?
 

DJDamage

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Just because a guy is AFC doesn't mean his would not succeed if he at least tries. He would likely fail more because he is doing everything wrong.

Eventually AFC's get married really quick and end up in an unhappy and unloving relationship for the rest of their lives.
 

S0LID

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ye he does end up in realy long, go nowhere relationships.
 

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**** this, you guys unnerstand what I'm saying???

Being an unlaid DJ or DJ in training is hell of a lot better than being a laid AFC. It's called LIVING WITH DIGNITY.

You can starve and be free or you can be a FAT well fed EUNUCH who is used to perform labor, and is occasionally anally masturbated as a reward.

If getting laid is all you want what's stopping you from approaching repulsive fatties, or gay clubs or SM clubs where they MAKE you the *****???

Don't defend the AFC. It is indefensible! :mad:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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frivolousz21

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I have been a DJ or close to it or in pursuit of it for about 2 months..

I have been laid 1 time!

and why?

because once I discovered myself..the desire for women droppped so much...right now im focusing on my future.

so yes I love being who I am now with no sex at the moment than chasing ***** like some whipped little *****~!
 

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He is a big AFC as he will txt her like mad after they meet.

Watch and see how great this will work for him. *rolls eyes*
 
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