"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Perhaps AFCs arent as bad

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Ok theres this guy in my college course. He liked this girl in another class, shes about a 8/10. He asked 1 of the guys in out class to ask the girl for her number. She gave got his number, and he got hers. They still havnt spoke in person, and I think hes txt her, she txt back. Now their meeting tonight :eek:

He is a big AFC as he will txt her like mad after they meet. I got a feeling though they will get together.

So... The best thing to do is to take chances?

Any opinions guys?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Being an AFC is living without dignity. Would you eat your own **** in a desperate attempt not to starve?

I think that just because this guy got a frickin number you think he's the man. Christ! He hasn't even gone halfway there yet! Hasn't even reached the stage of blowoffs, hasn't even got the GUTS to approach a girl he likes, probably might not even know how to arouse her! Would he know how to deal with competition, from guys who are also 8s or 10s?
 
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Just because a guy is AFC doesn't mean his would not succeed if he at least tries. He would likely fail more because he is doing everything wrong.

Eventually AFC's get married really quick and end up in an unhappy and unloving relationship for the rest of their lives.
 
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ye he does end up in realy long, go nowhere relationships.
 
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**** this, you guys unnerstand what I'm saying???

Being an unlaid DJ or DJ in training is hell of a lot better than being a laid AFC. It's called LIVING WITH DIGNITY.

You can starve and be free or you can be a FAT well fed EUNUCH who is used to perform labor, and is occasionally anally masturbated as a reward.

If getting laid is all you want what's stopping you from approaching repulsive fatties, or gay clubs or SM clubs where they MAKE you the *****???

Don't defend the AFC. It is indefensible! :mad:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have been a DJ or close to it or in pursuit of it for about 2 months..

I have been laid 1 time!

and why?

because once I discovered myself..the desire for women droppped so much...right now im focusing on my future.

so yes I love being who I am now with no sex at the moment than chasing ***** like some whipped little *****~!
 
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He is a big AFC as he will txt her like mad after they meet.

Watch and see how great this will work for him. *rolls eyes*
 
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