Anyone else? Don't be scared to admit it--we're all anonymous here. And I'd appreciate thoughts/advice.
Seems like if I don't give a sh!t about the girl and just want to use her as a literal fvck toy I have no issues. But once I start to date a girl and legitimately like her I get in my head more and sometimes/sporadically have issues.
I know some guys are the opposite--they get performance anxiety if they don't know a girl well and aren't "comfortable" with her.
Had a date earlier with someone I've seen like 8 times now. She dressed up for me in this sexy outfit and everything. Went to her place and she wanted to fvck immediately, but I didn't feel horny at all. D1ck was as limp as an overcook spaghetti noodle. Embarrassing. And I felt pretty sh1tty considering she dressed up for me. Was awkward for a bit, went for a walk, came back, we started slowly getting into it and then I was all good. Went 3 rounds like a champ. Very weird, but I remember this happening years ago with the last girl I was seriously dating. It's like I care about them TOO much and lose sexual attraction or something.
Seems like if I don't give a sh!t about the girl and just want to use her as a literal fvck toy I have no issues. But once I start to date a girl and legitimately like her I get in my head more and sometimes/sporadically have issues.
I know some guys are the opposite--they get performance anxiety if they don't know a girl well and aren't "comfortable" with her.
Had a date earlier with someone I've seen like 8 times now. She dressed up for me in this sexy outfit and everything. Went to her place and she wanted to fvck immediately, but I didn't feel horny at all. D1ck was as limp as an overcook spaghetti noodle. Embarrassing. And I felt pretty sh1tty considering she dressed up for me. Was awkward for a bit, went for a walk, came back, we started slowly getting into it and then I was all good. Went 3 rounds like a champ. Very weird, but I remember this happening years ago with the last girl I was seriously dating. It's like I care about them TOO much and lose sexual attraction or something.