"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Perfect example of how NOT to act around women

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Where I work there is a couple who used to go out (they are both in their mid twenties I think), but it ended a few years ago.

This girl is very cute and the guy not so great looking. This girl has a new boyfriend and apparantley he still likes her.

They don't work in the same department, but on the same floor. Whenever I am on their floor (3rd floor) he is ALWAYS no more than 20 feet from her and seems to follow her around like a lost puppy dog. He even PARKS his vehicle next to hers and they always coincidentally arive at work at the same time.

I think this guy is sitting their waiting for her to breakup with her boyfriend and hoping in a supplicating fashion that she will take him back.

It is actually quite sad.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Crazy Asian

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it's exactly like what i did first 2 years in high school.

it's freaking sad.
 
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Help a bro out and tell him to read up on the dj forums and see the light!
I wish someone would have done me the favor 3 years ago..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Guide him here...it needs 2 be done, u would want the same done for u if it were you in his shoes.
 
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Smack

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devils3777 said:
Where I work there is a couple who used to go out (they are both in their mid twenties I think), but it ended a few years ago.

This girl is very cute and the guy not so great looking. This girl has a new boyfriend and apparantley he still likes her.

They don't work in the same department, but on the same floor. Whenever I am on their floor (3rd floor) he is ALWAYS no more than 20 feet from her and seems to follow her around like a lost puppy dog. He even PARKS his vehicle next to hers and they always coincidentally arive at work at the same time.

I think this guy is sitting their waiting for her to breakup with her boyfriend and hoping in a supplicating fashion that she will take him back.

It is actually quite sad.
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You shouldn't stalk your ex in the hope she'll take you back. This is hardly a ground-breaking new tip.
 
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Let's try and keep this an underground community.
 
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Sandow said:
Let's try and keep this an underground community.
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doesn't matter. you can lead a horse to water...

tried to turn a few people on to this site...they get real defensive.
 
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"Unplugging chumps from the Matrix is dirty business"

- Rollo Tomassi
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Usually you have to want to change yourself, and it's only then that you seek this site out.

Most of us are here because something went terribly wrong and we realized that the problem was with us, so we decided to do something about it...
 
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