"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Perfect example of how NOT to act around women

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Where I work there is a couple who used to go out (they are both in their mid twenties I think), but it ended a few years ago.

This girl is very cute and the guy not so great looking. This girl has a new boyfriend and apparantley he still likes her.

They don't work in the same department, but on the same floor. Whenever I am on their floor (3rd floor) he is ALWAYS no more than 20 feet from her and seems to follow her around like a lost puppy dog. He even PARKS his vehicle next to hers and they always coincidentally arive at work at the same time.

I think this guy is sitting their waiting for her to breakup with her boyfriend and hoping in a supplicating fashion that she will take him back.

It is actually quite sad.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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it's exactly like what i did first 2 years in high school.

it's freaking sad.
 
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Help a bro out and tell him to read up on the dj forums and see the light!
I wish someone would have done me the favor 3 years ago..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Guide him here...it needs 2 be done, u would want the same done for u if it were you in his shoes.
 
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devils3777 said:
Where I work there is a couple who used to go out (they are both in their mid twenties I think), but it ended a few years ago.

This girl is very cute and the guy not so great looking. This girl has a new boyfriend and apparantley he still likes her.

They don't work in the same department, but on the same floor. Whenever I am on their floor (3rd floor) he is ALWAYS no more than 20 feet from her and seems to follow her around like a lost puppy dog. He even PARKS his vehicle next to hers and they always coincidentally arive at work at the same time.

I think this guy is sitting their waiting for her to breakup with her boyfriend and hoping in a supplicating fashion that she will take him back.

It is actually quite sad.
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You shouldn't stalk your ex in the hope she'll take you back. This is hardly a ground-breaking new tip.
 
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Let's try and keep this an underground community.
 
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Sandow said:
Let's try and keep this an underground community.
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doesn't matter. you can lead a horse to water...

tried to turn a few people on to this site...they get real defensive.
 
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"Unplugging chumps from the Matrix is dirty business"

- Rollo Tomassi
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Usually you have to want to change yourself, and it's only then that you seek this site out.

Most of us are here because something went terribly wrong and we realized that the problem was with us, so we decided to do something about it...
 
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