"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Perfect example of girl behaviour and why I need help

DJHoolahoop

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Hey guys,

I was out with a friend the other night and we ended up going to a party a friend of his girlfriend was throwing. It was small and had a majority of girls there.

Now here's the thing, you'll hear them talk about random guys they hook up with and it sounds like these girls make out with guys all the time. So why is it that when I try to get some of that **** I get totally shut down by these girls?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tmpgstx

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Do these girls have BFs? Did it sound like it? If not, sounds like your typical AWs that do the 'friends with benefits' scenerio.

Typically this revolves around sports teams it seems like from what i've noticed. These girls could almost be classified as some sort of 'groupies' for the sport.

If you're responsible, have direction and are overall decent, then these girls won't give you a second thought. It's sad but true, but whose loss is it really anyway?
 

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I wish I could be in a place like that. I woul'd have so much fun.

Anyway, these girs are approached all the time and they know it when to bust your balls. But still you can try another way, because persistence is the key.

Read some of Marius Panzarella's articles. You'll get it there or David DeAngelo'd DYD.
 

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they are in the secret society and you arent
 
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