"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Perfect example of girl behaviour and why I need help

DJHoolahoop

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Hey guys,

I was out with a friend the other night and we ended up going to a party a friend of his girlfriend was throwing. It was small and had a majority of girls there.

Now here's the thing, you'll hear them talk about random guys they hook up with and it sounds like these girls make out with guys all the time. So why is it that when I try to get some of that **** I get totally shut down by these girls?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tmpgstx

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Do these girls have BFs? Did it sound like it? If not, sounds like your typical AWs that do the 'friends with benefits' scenerio.

Typically this revolves around sports teams it seems like from what i've noticed. These girls could almost be classified as some sort of 'groupies' for the sport.

If you're responsible, have direction and are overall decent, then these girls won't give you a second thought. It's sad but true, but whose loss is it really anyway?
 

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I wish I could be in a place like that. I woul'd have so much fun.

Anyway, these girs are approached all the time and they know it when to bust your balls. But still you can try another way, because persistence is the key.

Read some of Marius Panzarella's articles. You'll get it there or David DeAngelo'd DYD.
 

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they are in the secret society and you arent
 
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