"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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People who deal in absolutes are completely retarded

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zekko said:
That's what a jerk is. Note the emphasis on treating other people shabbily. Demanding respect for yourself is not treating others badly. PUAs try to set up jerks as having only positive qualities, which is completely ludicrous. There's nothing admirable about being a jerk.
I think Team America put it best. D!cks, Pvssies and A$$holes. Probably the greatest speech in the history of film.

Most guys start off as nice guys (pvssies). Then they get burned by women and turn into jerks (a$$holes). These are two extremes, both of which are relatively unattractive to women. Obviously what we are aiming for is the middle ground of being a d!ck.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2cV_q-mVAAA
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I needed to read this, thanks Dgwizdal

Been to the dark side and coming back

Note: You can never "attain" enlightenment. It must be fought for and won on every single day that you exist.
 
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