"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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People who deal in absolutes are completely retarded

Turuwal

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zekko said:
That's what a jerk is. Note the emphasis on treating other people shabbily. Demanding respect for yourself is not treating others badly. PUAs try to set up jerks as having only positive qualities, which is completely ludicrous. There's nothing admirable about being a jerk.
I think Team America put it best. D!cks, Pvssies and A$$holes. Probably the greatest speech in the history of film.

Most guys start off as nice guys (pvssies). Then they get burned by women and turn into jerks (a$$holes). These are two extremes, both of which are relatively unattractive to women. Obviously what we are aiming for is the middle ground of being a d!ck.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2cV_q-mVAAA
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I needed to read this, thanks Dgwizdal

Been to the dark side and coming back

Note: You can never "attain" enlightenment. It must be fought for and won on every single day that you exist.
 
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