"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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People think I'm someguy who doesn't care about anything!

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Wutz good yall,lol ignore my typing/spelling skills its going to be dirty :D
Anyways I been on here for quite sometime,but I was just too lazy to signup.Ok my problem is everyone in highschool thinks I'm just some goofy kid which is a good thing,but girls refuse to go out with me because they just think I want them for sex or will hurt there feelings.I mean I get alot of puzzy,but most girls seriously start to cry because I call them names like"hoes"and then I f*ck them and then leave them.Like my baby mama yeah I know I got a girl pregnant she calls me everyday saying I don't care about her.And now every girl in school and even the guys have been saying I don't care about anybody besides myself.My parents have been saying the samething that if I have this attitude I will end up in jail,which is a badthing.I mean I want to become a DJ but its like how can I actually have feelings for other people.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You got a girl pregnant, call them hoes, and make them cry?

That's ****ed up.
 

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VegasGuy56 said:
You got a girl pregnant, call them hoes, and make them cry?

That's ****ed up.
umm thats my problem right there,I wanna be normal and stop doing **** like this!
 

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There is no "normal". Normal is only how you see things. First things first, cover the jimmy. Second thing, relax with the names. Third thing, go out and have fun. Find something that you can "care" about. It'll help.
 

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Dude, you got her pregnant. Mctwist is right. Focus on that, not on becoming a DJ.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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aight good advice,yeah like at parties I get too drunked and end up hitting people.I mean sh*t I usually have fun,but not caring my other thing is like at the malls when I approach who is walking how can I say kind stuff so she won't say its sexual harrasement?
 

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Mctwist4 said:
Then...stop
If you're going to be a father then you have bigger things to worry about then being a DJ.
i'm not 100% sure if the baby is mine,it might be me.But yeah I focuse on taking care of da baby,but damn I also want to be a DJ rather then some guy who overdoes jerkness to a new level.
 

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i want the "Ghetto image" to stop and be more classy like how a real dJ would be
 

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Yes, I agree with these other guys, I just didn't mention it earlier. Get a job. Put money aside from each paycheck to help support your child. This is your first step towards being "classy" and mature.

Another way to rid yourself of the ghetto image is to dress better. Theres countless threads on this on the site, go find one. Another one, may be to speak more eloquently. Look it up if you want to know the definition. Small steps my man.

If it's yours, the child should come first.
 

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highschoolkid said:
aight good advice,yeah like at parties I get too drunked and end up hitting people.I mean sh*t I usually have fun,but not caring my other thing is like at the malls when I approach who is walking how can I say kind stuff so she won't say its sexual harrasement?

You're full of sh*t. I am going to assume that you're black, if you don't like it fvck off. You really don't want to change. If you did you would DO something about it, not post a thread on a forum showcasing you're amazing skills at English. You don't need to worry about approaching girls at the mall or getting drunk. I realize you're still young but you need to be a goddamn man and take care of your fvckin kid. Stop watching rap videos and listening to that garbage. Ever think that might be the cause of your no limit bout it bout it g unit way of thinking?? You wanna not be "ghetto?" THEN STOP DRESSING LIKE IT AND LEARN HOW TO SPEEK! I think you might be a troll...you're so full of sh*t i can smell you.:nono:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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oakraiderz2 said:
You're full of sh*t. I am going to assume that you're black, if you don't like it fvck off. You really don't want to change. If you did you would DO something about it, not post a thread on a forum showcasing you're amazing skills at English. You don't need to worry about approaching girls at the mall or getting drunk. I realize you're still young but you need to be a goddamn man and take care of your fvckin kid. Stop watching rap videos and listening to that garbage. Ever think that might be the cause of your no limit bout it bout it g unit way of thinking?? You wanna not be "ghetto?" THEN STOP DRESSING LIKE IT AND LEARN HOW TO SPEEK! I think you might be a troll...you're so full of sh*t i can smell you.:nono:
wtf?who the f*ck are u?I'm black,so what im proud of it.Who the f*ck are u coming here talkin sh*t,i'll just ignore ur ***** ass.And I yeah watch rap videos but that doesn't mean I like gunit,u know what i'm not even gonna bother responding cuz i came here for little advice,then ur ***** a$$ come heres posting some bullsh*t and stereotypes.I'll put these bigblack nutz in ur face,huh how u like that,puzzy!
 

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highschoolkid said:
wtf?who the f*ck are u?I'm black,so what im proud of it.Who the f*ck are u coming here talkin sh*t,i'll just ignore ur ***** ass.And I yeah watch rap videos but that doesn't mean I like gunit,u know what i'm not even gonna bother responding cuz i came here for little advice,then ur ***** a$$ come heres posting some bullsh*t and stereotypes.I'll put these bigblack nutz in ur face,huh how u like that,puzzy!
Im black too guy. You speak "ebonics", have a kid from your baby mama, call girls hoes and tricks and all that sh*t. Yea i sterotyped you and was right wasnt i? How does that make you feel? You say you wanna change but you take the approach here that is easily seen through. Heres some advice, chill out. Its just hard for me to believe that you wanna get rid of your ghetto image and you dont know how....go to your English class, stop dressing like a thug, and dont refer to you"big black nuts in someones face." I may have been a little hostile and i apologize, i tend to do that sometimes. But seriously, people like you irritate me.
 

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OAKRAIDERZ!!!! what's up man. How have you been? ahh... dealing with trolls here...

Can you reply to my post? That would be cool if you could :). Do you still have AIM?
 

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CrazyAsianBiker said:
OAKRAIDERZ!!!! what's up man. How have you been? ahh... dealing with trolls here...

Can you reply to my post? That would be cool if you could :). Do you still have AIM?
No problemo, ill see what i can do. Yea i have AIM...globaldistorti0n...last o is a zero.
 

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Nice oakraider hahaha

And your full of sh*t dude this is a seduction sight and your complaning about to much pus*y get off of here you fuc*ing troll
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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