"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wutz good yall,lol ignore my typing/spelling skills its going to be dirty :D
Anyways I been on here for quite sometime,but I was just too lazy to signup.Ok my problem is everyone in highschool thinks I'm just some goofy kid which is a good thing,but girls refuse to go out with me because they just think I want them for sex or will hurt there feelings.I mean I get alot of puzzy,but most girls seriously start to cry because I call them names like"hoes"and then I f*ck them and then leave them.Like my baby mama yeah I know I got a girl pregnant she calls me everyday saying I don't care about her.And now every girl in school and even the guys have been saying I don't care about anybody besides myself.My parents have been saying the samething that if I have this attitude I will end up in jail,which is a badthing.I mean I want to become a DJ but its like how can I actually have feelings for other people.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You got a girl pregnant, call them hoes, and make them cry?

That's ****ed up.
 

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VegasGuy56 said:
You got a girl pregnant, call them hoes, and make them cry?

That's ****ed up.
umm thats my problem right there,I wanna be normal and stop doing **** like this!
 

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There is no "normal". Normal is only how you see things. First things first, cover the jimmy. Second thing, relax with the names. Third thing, go out and have fun. Find something that you can "care" about. It'll help.
 

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Dude, you got her pregnant. Mctwist is right. Focus on that, not on becoming a DJ.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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aight good advice,yeah like at parties I get too drunked and end up hitting people.I mean sh*t I usually have fun,but not caring my other thing is like at the malls when I approach who is walking how can I say kind stuff so she won't say its sexual harrasement?
 

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Mctwist4 said:
Then...stop
If you're going to be a father then you have bigger things to worry about then being a DJ.
i'm not 100% sure if the baby is mine,it might be me.But yeah I focuse on taking care of da baby,but damn I also want to be a DJ rather then some guy who overdoes jerkness to a new level.
 

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i want the "Ghetto image" to stop and be more classy like how a real dJ would be
 

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Yes, I agree with these other guys, I just didn't mention it earlier. Get a job. Put money aside from each paycheck to help support your child. This is your first step towards being "classy" and mature.

Another way to rid yourself of the ghetto image is to dress better. Theres countless threads on this on the site, go find one. Another one, may be to speak more eloquently. Look it up if you want to know the definition. Small steps my man.

If it's yours, the child should come first.
 

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highschoolkid said:
aight good advice,yeah like at parties I get too drunked and end up hitting people.I mean sh*t I usually have fun,but not caring my other thing is like at the malls when I approach who is walking how can I say kind stuff so she won't say its sexual harrasement?

You're full of sh*t. I am going to assume that you're black, if you don't like it fvck off. You really don't want to change. If you did you would DO something about it, not post a thread on a forum showcasing you're amazing skills at English. You don't need to worry about approaching girls at the mall or getting drunk. I realize you're still young but you need to be a goddamn man and take care of your fvckin kid. Stop watching rap videos and listening to that garbage. Ever think that might be the cause of your no limit bout it bout it g unit way of thinking?? You wanna not be "ghetto?" THEN STOP DRESSING LIKE IT AND LEARN HOW TO SPEEK! I think you might be a troll...you're so full of sh*t i can smell you.:nono:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oakraiderz2 said:
You're full of sh*t. I am going to assume that you're black, if you don't like it fvck off. You really don't want to change. If you did you would DO something about it, not post a thread on a forum showcasing you're amazing skills at English. You don't need to worry about approaching girls at the mall or getting drunk. I realize you're still young but you need to be a goddamn man and take care of your fvckin kid. Stop watching rap videos and listening to that garbage. Ever think that might be the cause of your no limit bout it bout it g unit way of thinking?? You wanna not be "ghetto?" THEN STOP DRESSING LIKE IT AND LEARN HOW TO SPEEK! I think you might be a troll...you're so full of sh*t i can smell you.:nono:
wtf?who the f*ck are u?I'm black,so what im proud of it.Who the f*ck are u coming here talkin sh*t,i'll just ignore ur ***** ass.And I yeah watch rap videos but that doesn't mean I like gunit,u know what i'm not even gonna bother responding cuz i came here for little advice,then ur ***** a$$ come heres posting some bullsh*t and stereotypes.I'll put these bigblack nutz in ur face,huh how u like that,puzzy!
 

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wtf?who the f*ck are u?I'm black,so what im proud of it.Who the f*ck are u coming here talkin sh*t,i'll just ignore ur ***** ass.And I yeah watch rap videos but that doesn't mean I like gunit,u know what i'm not even gonna bother responding cuz i came here for little advice,then ur ***** a$$ come heres posting some bullsh*t and stereotypes.I'll put these bigblack nutz in ur face,huh how u like that,puzzy!
Im black too guy. You speak "ebonics", have a kid from your baby mama, call girls hoes and tricks and all that sh*t. Yea i sterotyped you and was right wasnt i? How does that make you feel? You say you wanna change but you take the approach here that is easily seen through. Heres some advice, chill out. Its just hard for me to believe that you wanna get rid of your ghetto image and you dont know how....go to your English class, stop dressing like a thug, and dont refer to you"big black nuts in someones face." I may have been a little hostile and i apologize, i tend to do that sometimes. But seriously, people like you irritate me.
 

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OAKRAIDERZ!!!! what's up man. How have you been? ahh... dealing with trolls here...

Can you reply to my post? That would be cool if you could :). Do you still have AIM?
 

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CrazyAsianBiker said:
OAKRAIDERZ!!!! what's up man. How have you been? ahh... dealing with trolls here...

Can you reply to my post? That would be cool if you could :). Do you still have AIM?
No problemo, ill see what i can do. Yea i have AIM...globaldistorti0n...last o is a zero.
 

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Nice oakraider hahaha

And your full of sh*t dude this is a seduction sight and your complaning about to much pus*y get off of here you fuc*ing troll
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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