"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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People think im on roids

Italia

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Ok, everyone at my school think I am on roids. I dont get it, im 5'10 170. Everyone thinks im taking some crazy drug that makes me big. Quite honestly im not even that big. Im in football, and all of my football buddies and EVEN the COACH thinks im on roids. My bench three months ago was 185, now it is 255(Something I cant even figure out) I busted my ass off everyday in the gym doing 5X5. I will post a pic of myself soon, so you guys will see for yourself. I just hate when people automatically think im on roids when I meet them, its irritating.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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blinkwatt101

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Others people will always have an excuse as to why are you are better then that at something.

Consider it a compliment.
 

Colossus

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People like to write off anyone who is bigger, faster, or stronger than them as "on roids".

Truth is, there are insanely strong guys who juice and there are insanely strong guys who are natural. The general public who is totally ignorant about steroids will pull the steroid card for anything. It just means you're better than them and they want an excuse.
 

WC2

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People love to make excuses why they aren't as strong as you.

Consider yourself lucky that you have good genetics (not that you don't work and eat hard).

Some guys take AAS and can't even make the gains that some people do naturally.

These are compliments.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Italia

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Yeah thanks guys. People at my school say that I CAN'T be naturally this big because i'm Asian. LOL!!!
 

rocksoff

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Of course they think youre on roids...Buff ass Asians are rare as hell
 

DJ_Tekinkel

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Hey man im in the same boat, i been training for 10 years now. But i pride myself on being natural. Just take is a compliment
cause you know whats funny :) we are comparable to people on juice! Just means you succeeded and done it the hard way.

Most guys who comment on it, are just jealous anyway . Who cares you did the hard work ! just AFC's with insecuritys. DJ's are unphased :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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