"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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People think im on roids

Italia

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Ok, everyone at my school think I am on roids. I dont get it, im 5'10 170. Everyone thinks im taking some crazy drug that makes me big. Quite honestly im not even that big. Im in football, and all of my football buddies and EVEN the COACH thinks im on roids. My bench three months ago was 185, now it is 255(Something I cant even figure out) I busted my ass off everyday in the gym doing 5X5. I will post a pic of myself soon, so you guys will see for yourself. I just hate when people automatically think im on roids when I meet them, its irritating.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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blinkwatt101

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Others people will always have an excuse as to why are you are better then that at something.

Consider it a compliment.
 

Colossus

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People like to write off anyone who is bigger, faster, or stronger than them as "on roids".

Truth is, there are insanely strong guys who juice and there are insanely strong guys who are natural. The general public who is totally ignorant about steroids will pull the steroid card for anything. It just means you're better than them and they want an excuse.
 

WC2

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People love to make excuses why they aren't as strong as you.

Consider yourself lucky that you have good genetics (not that you don't work and eat hard).

Some guys take AAS and can't even make the gains that some people do naturally.

These are compliments.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Italia

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Yeah thanks guys. People at my school say that I CAN'T be naturally this big because i'm Asian. LOL!!!
 

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Of course they think youre on roids...Buff ass Asians are rare as hell
 

DJ_Tekinkel

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Hey man im in the same boat, i been training for 10 years now. But i pride myself on being natural. Just take is a compliment
cause you know whats funny :) we are comparable to people on juice! Just means you succeeded and done it the hard way.

Most guys who comment on it, are just jealous anyway . Who cares you did the hard work ! just AFC's with insecuritys. DJ's are unphased :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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