Ok, everyone at my school think I am on roids. I dont get it, im 5'10 170. Everyone thinks im taking some crazy drug that makes me big. Quite honestly im not even that big. Im in football, and all of my football buddies and EVEN the COACH thinks im on roids. My bench three months ago was 185, now it is 255(Something I cant even figure out) I busted my ass off everyday in the gym doing 5X5. I will post a pic of myself soon, so you guys will see for yourself. I just hate when people automatically think im on roids when I meet them, its irritating.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
People think im on roids
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
blinkwatt101
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Others people will always have an excuse as to why are you are better then that at something.
Consider it a compliment.
Consider it a compliment.
Colossus
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People like to write off anyone who is bigger, faster, or stronger than them as "on roids".
Truth is, there are insanely strong guys who juice and there are insanely strong guys who are natural. The general public who is totally ignorant about steroids will pull the steroid card for anything. It just means you're better than them and they want an excuse.
Truth is, there are insanely strong guys who juice and there are insanely strong guys who are natural. The general public who is totally ignorant about steroids will pull the steroid card for anything. It just means you're better than them and they want an excuse.
WC2
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People love to make excuses why they aren't as strong as you.
Consider yourself lucky that you have good genetics (not that you don't work and eat hard).
Some guys take AAS and can't even make the gains that some people do naturally.
These are compliments.
Consider yourself lucky that you have good genetics (not that you don't work and eat hard).
Some guys take AAS and can't even make the gains that some people do naturally.
These are compliments.
blinkwatt101
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WC2 said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Hey man im in the same boat, i been training for 10 years now. But i pride myself on being natural. Just take is a compliment
cause you know whats funny we are comparable to people on juice! Just means you succeeded and done it the hard way.
Most guys who comment on it, are just jealous anyway . Who cares you did the hard work ! just AFC's with insecuritys. DJ's are unphased
cause you know whats funny
we are comparable to people on juice! Just means you succeeded and done it the hard way.Most guys who comment on it, are just jealous anyway . Who cares you did the hard work ! just AFC's with insecuritys. DJ's are unphased
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.