Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I know.... these guys have extreme NPD which is why they can’t get women the normal way.
I think you are pedestalizing females in general. I treat the process as I would as if I were with a friend, with one difference... I make my intentions known, with body language and flirting, that I want to fvck. The up and down looks, looking at her lips, spinning her around and checking her out, when you first pick them up for a date, putting your hand on the small of her back, etc. Start small and step up the escalation over the night. They still catch hell and bullsh!t with them like she was one of the boys. Just because she's pretty and got a vaj doesn't mean she gets a pass. Most women don't want that anyways.
