"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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People noticing when I lift

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Some people are just naturally toned.... so they're prolly just wondering if your really putting in the work to look that way, or if you just have great genetics. I lift weights and sometimes I'll ask someone if they lift for that very reason. And lifting weights is like a fraternity. It's like if you love star wars and then one day u see a guy wearing a Luke skywalker shirt you'd think to yourself, I wonder if that guy is into star wars like me or is he just wearing the shirt cuz it looks nice. With you a guy is thinking... does that guy workout hard, or is he just naturally like that
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My Tanita Ironman bodyfat scale summarizes the body types well, using a rating of 1-9. It makes a 3x3 grid. On the worst corner (a 1) a person has lots of fat, and no muscle. On the far corner ( a 9) a person has little fat and lots of muscle. All combinations are represented. Over the 6 years I've had it, I've seen my rating (which started a 5) go as low as 2 (49% water, 25% fat) and as high as 9 (60% water, 8% fat). This explains why on some days women throw themselves at me and some days they run.

Women are like human bodyfat scales.
Bodyfat scales are highly inaccurate at best.
 

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Yes, but day over day, at the same time of day, they indeed show you a lot about your state.

For example, whenever I would score, I would score 6-9. When I felt sick, I would score 2-5.

And if you graph your fat % over time, it shifts gradually, not suddenly.

One puzzling part is whether you call yourself Athletic or not. This results in drastically lower body fat.
 
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