"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DesperateMonkey

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Im a tell u from the gate that im a virgin but im on the verge of losing my virginity. The other day i want over to my girls place and we were kissing and so forth. I started feeling around the chest, ass, and vagina for about 10 to 15 minutes. Then I stuck my finger in her vagina it was we real wet. She grabbed my penis and jerked it slowly which was good but i thought about how wet she was and how it was seeping through her clothes, i lost my mind. As soon as i knew that i just coudlnt control myself and i nutted. We have played around be4 like this and i never came off of it. So im slightly worried because this was the first time it happend and it didnt take long. After i nutted it took me along time to get that horny erection feeling again and i was pissed. I'm dissapointed that this happen and i want some type of reassurance that its gonna be greater later and not to worry.

I'm losing faith in my penis

Can anyone shed some light or advice on my situation ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ApocalypseCow2

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It's called "premature ejaculation". Google it.
 
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Arousal is as much mental as it is physical - next time think about football statistics or Stock Market quotes and you'll last longer - unless you reallly get excited about sports or money.:rolleyes:
 

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I made the mistake a few times of looking at one of those sites with grotesque photos of accidents and stuff (curiousity got the best of me). But now I find that if I think of those images it really helps out when I'm in a situation where I don't think I can hold it. Yes its a little weird but it helped me keep going in order for my women to climax.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bootlegger

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I'm assuming she was only rubbing on your d#cK, and not giving you a hand job.

a couple of things here you can do, when you are a beginner.

Clean the pipes first. Just like in "Theres something about mary".... You are going out with a loaded gun.

If you don't want to get off, don't think about anything sexual.

If you think you are going to blow, get her to break her hold, all you have to do is act like you are laying on something uncomfortable, or whatever.... It gives you a chance to calm down, its like a restart button.


These are all things you can do, the first one works best. Unless of course, you plan on giving the girl a facial and you want to blow a big load :D
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Arousal is as much mental as it is physical - next time think about football statistics or Stock Market quotes and you'll last longer - unless you reallly get excited about sports or money.:rolleyes:

hahaha thatz funny
 

Create Reality

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Anyone notice a desperate monkey needs penis help?
 

Jay-X

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Originally posted by Create Reality
Anyone notice a desperate monkey needs penis help?
yeah that's pretty hilarious:D
 

ApocalypseCow2

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Originally posted by bootlegger


If you don't want to get off, don't think about anything sexual.
This is common advice, but I think it defeats the whole purpose. What is the point of messing around with a girl if you can't think of anything sexual? There are many good ways to deal with premature ejaculation, and thinking about your grandma isn't one of them. Besides, you'll train yourself to get a woody whenever you see your grandparents :crackup:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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