"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DesperateMonkey

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Im a tell u from the gate that im a virgin but im on the verge of losing my virginity. The other day i want over to my girls place and we were kissing and so forth. I started feeling around the chest, ass, and vagina for about 10 to 15 minutes. Then I stuck my finger in her vagina it was we real wet. She grabbed my penis and jerked it slowly which was good but i thought about how wet she was and how it was seeping through her clothes, i lost my mind. As soon as i knew that i just coudlnt control myself and i nutted. We have played around be4 like this and i never came off of it. So im slightly worried because this was the first time it happend and it didnt take long. After i nutted it took me along time to get that horny erection feeling again and i was pissed. I'm dissapointed that this happen and i want some type of reassurance that its gonna be greater later and not to worry.

I'm losing faith in my penis

Can anyone shed some light or advice on my situation ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ApocalypseCow2

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It's called "premature ejaculation". Google it.
 
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Arousal is as much mental as it is physical - next time think about football statistics or Stock Market quotes and you'll last longer - unless you reallly get excited about sports or money.:rolleyes:
 

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I made the mistake a few times of looking at one of those sites with grotesque photos of accidents and stuff (curiousity got the best of me). But now I find that if I think of those images it really helps out when I'm in a situation where I don't think I can hold it. Yes its a little weird but it helped me keep going in order for my women to climax.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bootlegger

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I'm assuming she was only rubbing on your d#cK, and not giving you a hand job.

a couple of things here you can do, when you are a beginner.

Clean the pipes first. Just like in "Theres something about mary".... You are going out with a loaded gun.

If you don't want to get off, don't think about anything sexual.

If you think you are going to blow, get her to break her hold, all you have to do is act like you are laying on something uncomfortable, or whatever.... It gives you a chance to calm down, its like a restart button.


These are all things you can do, the first one works best. Unless of course, you plan on giving the girl a facial and you want to blow a big load :D
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Arousal is as much mental as it is physical - next time think about football statistics or Stock Market quotes and you'll last longer - unless you reallly get excited about sports or money.:rolleyes:

hahaha thatz funny
 

Create Reality

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Anyone notice a desperate monkey needs penis help?
 

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Originally posted by Create Reality
Anyone notice a desperate monkey needs penis help?
yeah that's pretty hilarious:D
 

ApocalypseCow2

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Originally posted by bootlegger


If you don't want to get off, don't think about anything sexual.
This is common advice, but I think it defeats the whole purpose. What is the point of messing around with a girl if you can't think of anything sexual? There are many good ways to deal with premature ejaculation, and thinking about your grandma isn't one of them. Besides, you'll train yourself to get a woody whenever you see your grandparents :crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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