My Name is Nobody
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So I am assuming staying quiet is the best bet. She's still chilling online. Maybe wondering why I am not talking to her.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
WhitePimp said:Dude seriously, just let it go. Block her on AIM, delete her name, whatever...just get rid of this damn girl. She's probably not wondering a damn thing about what you're doing online and you're over-analyzing the hell out of it. If she wants you she'll get in touch with you...in the meantime, find new chicks to obsess over.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You mean I DO want her to come to me right?SmokeX said:Keep quiet you don't want to persue this broad man.... you don't let her come to you. And if she doesn't shes not worth it, cause shes trying to game you.
Smoke
Nah, because I really did lose her number.christz said:"feel free to call me"
Friggin call her, dude wtf? she said to! man the thing about a DJ is that you do what you wanna do when you wanna do it, and don't hold a womans opinion over your own.
she said call her.. well then call her when you feel like it, be like what up so seriously i was gonna call you last nite until you left. let me get that number so i can call you sometime.
she'll prob give it out again and DON'T call her that nite call her in a day or so. then talk her up, hell i broke a chick just like her.. hell she even said at one time that i was being creepy.. i said whatever if you think that then stop talking to me.
what did she do? NOTHING she kept talking to me, then i got her number and it went from there pretty soon she was the one that wanted to meet with me, hah shyt i even said "i thought i was creepy" she's like stop u know ur sexy. SO we did and lets just say the rest is history. when a girl shyt test you like that shyt test her right back.. just say WHATEVER.