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So I am assuming staying quiet is the best bet. She's still chilling online. Maybe wondering why I am not talking to her.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
WhitePimp
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Dude seriously, just let it go. Block her on AIM, delete her name, whatever...just get rid of this damn girl. She's probably not wondering a damn thing about what you're doing online and you're over-analyzing the hell out of it. If she wants you she'll get in touch with you...in the meantime, find new chicks to obsess over.
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WhitePimp said:Dude seriously, just let it go. Block her on AIM, delete her name, whatever...just get rid of this damn girl. She's probably not wondering a damn thing about what you're doing online and you're over-analyzing the hell out of it. If she wants you she'll get in touch with you...in the meantime, find new chicks to obsess over.
You are right Sir.
I'm talking to a new girl now. She contacted me right when this other ***** ticked me off. Good timing!
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Well here's an update
She initiated a chat with me last night. Then said "feel free to call me"
I told her I lost her #. Then she laughed. Is that good?
Then I told her about this woman who is after me at work.
Then she said she was going to bed or something and left.
How'd I do?
She initiated a chat with me last night. Then said "feel free to call me"
I told her I lost her #. Then she laughed. Is that good?
Then I told her about this woman who is after me at work.
Then she said she was going to bed or something and left.
How'd I do?
SmokeX
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Keep quiet you don't want to persue this broad man.... you don't let her come to you. And if she doesn't shes not worth it, cause shes trying to game you.
Smoke
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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You mean I DO want her to come to me right?SmokeX said:Keep quiet you don't want to persue this broad man.... you don't let her come to you. And if she doesn't shes not worth it, cause shes trying to game you.
Smoke
"feel free to call me"
Friggin call her, dude wtf? she said to! man the thing about a DJ is that you do what you wanna do when you wanna do it, and don't hold a womans opinion over your own.
she said call her.. well then call her when you feel like it, be like what up so seriously i was gonna call you last nite until you left. let me get that number so i can call you sometime.
she'll prob give it out again and DON'T call her that nite call her in a day or so. then talk her up, hell i broke a chick just like her.. hell she even said at one time that i was being creepy.. i said whatever if you think that then stop talking to me.
what did she do? NOTHING she kept talking to me, then i got her number and it went from there pretty soon she was the one that wanted to meet with me, hah shyt i even said "i thought i was creepy" she's like stop u know ur sexy. SO we did and lets just say the rest is history. when a girl shyt test you like that shyt test her right back.. just say WHATEVER.
Friggin call her, dude wtf? she said to! man the thing about a DJ is that you do what you wanna do when you wanna do it, and don't hold a womans opinion over your own.
she said call her.. well then call her when you feel like it, be like what up so seriously i was gonna call you last nite until you left. let me get that number so i can call you sometime.
she'll prob give it out again and DON'T call her that nite call her in a day or so. then talk her up, hell i broke a chick just like her.. hell she even said at one time that i was being creepy.. i said whatever if you think that then stop talking to me.
what did she do? NOTHING she kept talking to me, then i got her number and it went from there pretty soon she was the one that wanted to meet with me, hah shyt i even said "i thought i was creepy" she's like stop u know ur sexy. SO we did and lets just say the rest is history. when a girl shyt test you like that shyt test her right back.. just say WHATEVER.
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Nah, because I really did lose her number.christz said:"feel free to call me"
Friggin call her, dude wtf? she said to! man the thing about a DJ is that you do what you wanna do when you wanna do it, and don't hold a womans opinion over your own.
she said call her.. well then call her when you feel like it, be like what up so seriously i was gonna call you last nite until you left. let me get that number so i can call you sometime.
she'll prob give it out again and DON'T call her that nite call her in a day or so. then talk her up, hell i broke a chick just like her.. hell she even said at one time that i was being creepy.. i said whatever if you think that then stop talking to me.
what did she do? NOTHING she kept talking to me, then i got her number and it went from there pretty soon she was the one that wanted to meet with me, hah shyt i even said "i thought i was creepy" she's like stop u know ur sexy. SO we did and lets just say the rest is history. when a girl shyt test you like that shyt test her right back.. just say WHATEVER.
I can't call her.
Thanks for the advice though.
She acted like a b!tch, and I won't tolerate that, so I didn't call her.
She is probabaly used to guys jerking off on command, so I ignored her.
Now, when I asked her what she is doing this weekend, she replied she will let me know.
I did the right thing by not calling her. I stood out from the rest. Which is key.