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So I am assuming staying quiet is the best bet. She's still chilling online. Maybe wondering why I am not talking to her.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
Dude seriously, just let it go. Block her on AIM, delete her name, whatever...just get rid of this damn girl. She's probably not wondering a damn thing about what you're doing online and you're over-analyzing the hell out of it. If she wants you she'll get in touch with you...in the meantime, find new chicks to obsess over.
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WhitePimp said:Dude seriously, just let it go. Block her on AIM, delete her name, whatever...just get rid of this damn girl. She's probably not wondering a damn thing about what you're doing online and you're over-analyzing the hell out of it. If she wants you she'll get in touch with you...in the meantime, find new chicks to obsess over.
You are right Sir.
I'm talking to a new girl now. She contacted me right when this other ***** ticked me off. Good timing!
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Well here's an update
She initiated a chat with me last night. Then said "feel free to call me"
I told her I lost her #. Then she laughed. Is that good?
Then I told her about this woman who is after me at work.
Then she said she was going to bed or something and left.
How'd I do?
She initiated a chat with me last night. Then said "feel free to call me"
I told her I lost her #. Then she laughed. Is that good?
Then I told her about this woman who is after me at work.
Then she said she was going to bed or something and left.
How'd I do?
SmokeX
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Keep quiet you don't want to persue this broad man.... you don't let her come to you. And if she doesn't shes not worth it, cause shes trying to game you.
Smoke
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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You mean I DO want her to come to me right?SmokeX said:Keep quiet you don't want to persue this broad man.... you don't let her come to you. And if she doesn't shes not worth it, cause shes trying to game you.
Smoke
"feel free to call me"
Friggin call her, dude wtf? she said to! man the thing about a DJ is that you do what you wanna do when you wanna do it, and don't hold a womans opinion over your own.
she said call her.. well then call her when you feel like it, be like what up so seriously i was gonna call you last nite until you left. let me get that number so i can call you sometime.
she'll prob give it out again and DON'T call her that nite call her in a day or so. then talk her up, hell i broke a chick just like her.. hell she even said at one time that i was being creepy.. i said whatever if you think that then stop talking to me.
what did she do? NOTHING she kept talking to me, then i got her number and it went from there pretty soon she was the one that wanted to meet with me, hah shyt i even said "i thought i was creepy" she's like stop u know ur sexy. SO we did and lets just say the rest is history. when a girl shyt test you like that shyt test her right back.. just say WHATEVER.
Friggin call her, dude wtf? she said to! man the thing about a DJ is that you do what you wanna do when you wanna do it, and don't hold a womans opinion over your own.
she said call her.. well then call her when you feel like it, be like what up so seriously i was gonna call you last nite until you left. let me get that number so i can call you sometime.
she'll prob give it out again and DON'T call her that nite call her in a day or so. then talk her up, hell i broke a chick just like her.. hell she even said at one time that i was being creepy.. i said whatever if you think that then stop talking to me.
what did she do? NOTHING she kept talking to me, then i got her number and it went from there pretty soon she was the one that wanted to meet with me, hah shyt i even said "i thought i was creepy" she's like stop u know ur sexy. SO we did and lets just say the rest is history. when a girl shyt test you like that shyt test her right back.. just say WHATEVER.
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Nah, because I really did lose her number.christz said:"feel free to call me"
Friggin call her, dude wtf? she said to! man the thing about a DJ is that you do what you wanna do when you wanna do it, and don't hold a womans opinion over your own.
she said call her.. well then call her when you feel like it, be like what up so seriously i was gonna call you last nite until you left. let me get that number so i can call you sometime.
she'll prob give it out again and DON'T call her that nite call her in a day or so. then talk her up, hell i broke a chick just like her.. hell she even said at one time that i was being creepy.. i said whatever if you think that then stop talking to me.
what did she do? NOTHING she kept talking to me, then i got her number and it went from there pretty soon she was the one that wanted to meet with me, hah shyt i even said "i thought i was creepy" she's like stop u know ur sexy. SO we did and lets just say the rest is history. when a girl shyt test you like that shyt test her right back.. just say WHATEVER.
I can't call her.
Thanks for the advice though.
She acted like a b!tch, and I won't tolerate that, so I didn't call her.
She is probabaly used to guys jerking off on command, so I ignored her.
Now, when I asked her what she is doing this weekend, she replied she will let me know.
I did the right thing by not calling her. I stood out from the rest. Which is key.