"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm tryin to get bigger pectorial muscles. I've been doing push-ups for 2 weeks now. Should i do them until i can't take it anymore or should i just do sets. how many sets of wat should i do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Heh, interesting actually, i've a mate that just does pushups, curls, and a few other piss fart exercises with the only dumbell he has, and over the course of the past months he now has a pretty damn good chest...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Squats and bench presses with wide grip or db bench presses.
 

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
As Lifeforce said, plus lots of red meat.
is red meat really that essential??

I've been eating more lean meats like turkley and chicken and also a lot of salmon.

I'm not a massive fan on red meat, used to be a veggie.

:(
 

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No, it's not essential persay but red meat (beef in particular) is complete protein with all the amino acids so you're limiting yourself if you don't source at least a proportion of your protein grams from it.

For me, the difference was immense when I stopped following the 'extra clean' tuna, chicken breast and egg white diet, threw in a load of red meat and whole eggs and I just blew up, muscle-wise. Keeping the lean protein for my evening meals ensured that my bodyfat was kept in check.

People who eat egg whites, chicken and tuna and expect to get big are just kidding themselves - that's precontest fare for competing bodybuilders.

If you think you'll get big on just lean proteins like chicken and fish then you're wrong.. you'll get big(ger) but it'll take you longer. The simple truth is that these foods, while being reasonable sources of protein, just don't pack the calorific punch required for serious growth .. I'm talking SERIOUS growth though, which not everyone is after.

And if you don't like red meat, well, you don't like red meat! I'd throw down a kg or two of steak mince in a day pretty easily. Yum!

Try to like it.. if you really can't you really can't, but if you add say 100g of beef protein in your daily intake for two or three months, I'm sure you'll see a difference.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cheers for that.

I do eat some red meat, just don't exactly feel a desire to eat it, unless its a bbq, mind you, I only started eating salmon about a month ago, and now am eating it almost daily.

i'm not trying to get massive, and will probably get where i want to be on my current diet, but if red meat will speed it up, i'll try and make the effort.

thing is though, chicken, turkey and salom are all so easy to throw in a sandwich,and takes less than 5 minutes. Where as you have to cook red meat. :(

what do you eat all that mince with?
 

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Depends on what time of day it is, what meal it is, etc etc.

If it's pro/carb then with basmati rice, pasta, or I put the meat in pitta bread or wrap it in wholewheat tortillas.. (with a little salsa, quark and lightly fried peppers, lovely).

If it's pro/veggies then with a load of cooked veg or a salad.

If it's pro/fat then maybe with scrambled eggs/pancakes, or add a small protein drink with olive/flax oil to it.

Functional eating my man. When I'm eating for pleasure I'd just grab a 16oz t-bone and a boatload of fetta cheese..
 

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Or I cook the meat with a load of canned tomatoes and spices..

Or just the spices..

Or make burgers out of it..

I don't skimp on condiments either, I found out a long time ago that if your food doesn't taste nice there's no way you're gonna force it down the hatch - I use mustard (good old Colemans plus other types, french or german mustard in large amounts is good), ketchup, some of those Heinz peppercorn/sundried tomato sauce, BBQ sauce.. low-carb sauces when I can find them.

Damn, I'm hungry now.
 

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex


For me, the difference was immense when I stopped following the 'extra clean' tuna, chicken breast and egg white diet, threw in a load of red meat and whole eggs and I just blew up, muscle-wise. Keeping the lean protein for my evening meals ensured that my bodyfat was kept in check.

People who eat egg whites, chicken and tuna and expect to get big are just kidding themselves - that's precontest fare for competing bodybuilders.

Ack i'm glad i saw this. I'd been eating mostly ground turkey (as burgers), chicken, tuna, and whole eggs for protein. Guess i'll mix in some red ground cow for my burgers instead of just thinkin i'm all healthy and special for doing turkey stead of a mooer.
 

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Originally posted by Not Quite There


thing is though, chicken, turkey and salom are all so easy to throw in a sandwich,and takes less than 5 minutes. Where as you have to cook red meat. :(

I cook large batches at once on like sunday or monday and just throw it in tupperware and it lasts through the week for meals during work.

Same thing with whole wheat spaghetti and such.

Meat lasts fairly decently cooked already in the fridge. At least i haven't gotten any diseases yet.


I also keep about a dozen cans of tuna and a cannister of oatmeal in my desk :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Right on MrRuckus - preparation in advance is a big part of our game.

There's nothing wrong with eating clean as such - just remember your body needs calories just as much as anything else, don't be afraid to chow down. You have to give a little to gain a lot in many cases - I'm not saying expanding your waistline along with your bicep size, but if you're paranoid about keeping a sixpack or whatever as well as putting muscle on the rest of you then likely as not you're not eating enough for fear of smoothing out.

And chances are that you can keep your sixpack and all that, you've just got to be intelligent about it. There's no need to get fat, but no need to eat like you're two weeks away from a bodybuilding show..
 

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ha, you wouldnt beleive the coincidence, but my mom cooked chili tonight with mince, and theres laods of it left, so i am gonna be eating it tomorrow as well. :D
 

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@ mr pots and pans


nice name, where did you get that? is it from some book about a magic tree???

i have vague memories of reading it when i was little!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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