You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=77264Originally posted by whyshy
I'm tryin to get bigger pectorial muscles. I've been doing push-ups for 2 weeks now. Should i do them until i can't take it anymore or should i just do sets. how many sets of wat should i do?
is red meat really that essential??Originally posted by Warboss Alex
As Lifeforce said, plus lots of red meat.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ack i'm glad i saw this. I'd been eating mostly ground turkey (as burgers), chicken, tuna, and whole eggs for protein. Guess i'll mix in some red ground cow for my burgers instead of just thinkin i'm all healthy and special for doing turkey stead of a mooer.Originally posted by Warboss Alex
For me, the difference was immense when I stopped following the 'extra clean' tuna, chicken breast and egg white diet, threw in a load of red meat and whole eggs and I just blew up, muscle-wise. Keeping the lean protein for my evening meals ensured that my bodyfat was kept in check.
People who eat egg whites, chicken and tuna and expect to get big are just kidding themselves - that's precontest fare for competing bodybuilders.
Originally posted by Not Quite There
thing is though, chicken, turkey and salom are all so easy to throw in a sandwich,and takes less than 5 minutes. Where as you have to cook red meat.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The creatine is destroyed when you cook it.Originally posted by dentalfloss
red meat contains creatine, its probably why it helps so much
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.