"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm tryin to get bigger pectorial muscles. I've been doing push-ups for 2 weeks now. Should i do them until i can't take it anymore or should i just do sets. how many sets of wat should i do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Heh, interesting actually, i've a mate that just does pushups, curls, and a few other piss fart exercises with the only dumbell he has, and over the course of the past months he now has a pretty damn good chest...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Squats and bench presses with wide grip or db bench presses.
 

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
As Lifeforce said, plus lots of red meat.
is red meat really that essential??

I've been eating more lean meats like turkley and chicken and also a lot of salmon.

I'm not a massive fan on red meat, used to be a veggie.

:(
 

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No, it's not essential persay but red meat (beef in particular) is complete protein with all the amino acids so you're limiting yourself if you don't source at least a proportion of your protein grams from it.

For me, the difference was immense when I stopped following the 'extra clean' tuna, chicken breast and egg white diet, threw in a load of red meat and whole eggs and I just blew up, muscle-wise. Keeping the lean protein for my evening meals ensured that my bodyfat was kept in check.

People who eat egg whites, chicken and tuna and expect to get big are just kidding themselves - that's precontest fare for competing bodybuilders.

If you think you'll get big on just lean proteins like chicken and fish then you're wrong.. you'll get big(ger) but it'll take you longer. The simple truth is that these foods, while being reasonable sources of protein, just don't pack the calorific punch required for serious growth .. I'm talking SERIOUS growth though, which not everyone is after.

And if you don't like red meat, well, you don't like red meat! I'd throw down a kg or two of steak mince in a day pretty easily. Yum!

Try to like it.. if you really can't you really can't, but if you add say 100g of beef protein in your daily intake for two or three months, I'm sure you'll see a difference.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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cheers for that.

I do eat some red meat, just don't exactly feel a desire to eat it, unless its a bbq, mind you, I only started eating salmon about a month ago, and now am eating it almost daily.

i'm not trying to get massive, and will probably get where i want to be on my current diet, but if red meat will speed it up, i'll try and make the effort.

thing is though, chicken, turkey and salom are all so easy to throw in a sandwich,and takes less than 5 minutes. Where as you have to cook red meat. :(

what do you eat all that mince with?
 

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Depends on what time of day it is, what meal it is, etc etc.

If it's pro/carb then with basmati rice, pasta, or I put the meat in pitta bread or wrap it in wholewheat tortillas.. (with a little salsa, quark and lightly fried peppers, lovely).

If it's pro/veggies then with a load of cooked veg or a salad.

If it's pro/fat then maybe with scrambled eggs/pancakes, or add a small protein drink with olive/flax oil to it.

Functional eating my man. When I'm eating for pleasure I'd just grab a 16oz t-bone and a boatload of fetta cheese..
 

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Or I cook the meat with a load of canned tomatoes and spices..

Or just the spices..

Or make burgers out of it..

I don't skimp on condiments either, I found out a long time ago that if your food doesn't taste nice there's no way you're gonna force it down the hatch - I use mustard (good old Colemans plus other types, french or german mustard in large amounts is good), ketchup, some of those Heinz peppercorn/sundried tomato sauce, BBQ sauce.. low-carb sauces when I can find them.

Damn, I'm hungry now.
 

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex


For me, the difference was immense when I stopped following the 'extra clean' tuna, chicken breast and egg white diet, threw in a load of red meat and whole eggs and I just blew up, muscle-wise. Keeping the lean protein for my evening meals ensured that my bodyfat was kept in check.

People who eat egg whites, chicken and tuna and expect to get big are just kidding themselves - that's precontest fare for competing bodybuilders.

Ack i'm glad i saw this. I'd been eating mostly ground turkey (as burgers), chicken, tuna, and whole eggs for protein. Guess i'll mix in some red ground cow for my burgers instead of just thinkin i'm all healthy and special for doing turkey stead of a mooer.
 

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Originally posted by Not Quite There


thing is though, chicken, turkey and salom are all so easy to throw in a sandwich,and takes less than 5 minutes. Where as you have to cook red meat. :(

I cook large batches at once on like sunday or monday and just throw it in tupperware and it lasts through the week for meals during work.

Same thing with whole wheat spaghetti and such.

Meat lasts fairly decently cooked already in the fridge. At least i haven't gotten any diseases yet.


I also keep about a dozen cans of tuna and a cannister of oatmeal in my desk :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Right on MrRuckus - preparation in advance is a big part of our game.

There's nothing wrong with eating clean as such - just remember your body needs calories just as much as anything else, don't be afraid to chow down. You have to give a little to gain a lot in many cases - I'm not saying expanding your waistline along with your bicep size, but if you're paranoid about keeping a sixpack or whatever as well as putting muscle on the rest of you then likely as not you're not eating enough for fear of smoothing out.

And chances are that you can keep your sixpack and all that, you've just got to be intelligent about it. There's no need to get fat, but no need to eat like you're two weeks away from a bodybuilding show..
 

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ha, you wouldnt beleive the coincidence, but my mom cooked chili tonight with mince, and theres laods of it left, so i am gonna be eating it tomorrow as well. :D
 

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@ mr pots and pans


nice name, where did you get that? is it from some book about a magic tree???

i have vague memories of reading it when i was little!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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