"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pec problem (short)

SuSHI

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Hi guys, I'm a newbie in this part of the forum.

I just have one question: Are there any good excercises I could do for my pecs with dumbells? I really want to work them up strong cause they are kinda flat. I only have dumbells, so I would really like to know any good exercises for them.

Thnx,
SuSHI
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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misunderstood??

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You could try:
-Incline/flat/decline dumbell flyes
-Incline/flat/decline dumbell presses
-pullovers

those are the first that come to my head.
 

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How heavy are these dumbells? You're not going to be able to do much if they're just little 20 pounders.
 

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Basic, press up hands under shoulders.
vary with trangle press ups and wide press ups.
I remember someone saying the bench press is one of the best for the pecs, weight and reps determining mass or toning effect.
BTW, that exrx site is now book marked :p, good site
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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