"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sir Drinksalot

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Since breakup with gf 5 or 6 months ago I've been very dedicated to working out. I can only get there 2x per week, but with my rather slow recovery rate, it works. I've been getting noticed by a lot of broads who were indifferent to me before.

My pecs are lagging behind. I werigh 230 but only can bench approx. 255 right now. My tris are stronger than guys who bench 80-100lbs more than I do (I french pressed 90 pounds 9 times on Sunday) but my chest is lagging behind, visibly, even though it's what I value the most.

Suggestions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mjazz

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well i hope with working 2x a week ur doing full body workout each day, then that would be fine. Are you sure your not working your chest TOO much? if not, then you should try a 3 day split, one workout every 2 days. Chest tris abs
back bis forearms legs shoulders, and on those restdays you can do pull ups and pushups and situps and leg lifts and bodysquats, just not intense, enough to get a small small burn. That has done wonders for me.

Are you working your back? Your chest cant get any bigger if your lats are lagging, work those lats man. In your chest workout do DIPS, flat bench, INCLINE bench ( important) and some flys, then its all good, DONT OVERTRAIN, eat well rest well good luck
 

EFFORT

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Get your bench in the 300s for reps
 

John_Galt

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You know you don't have to lift a lot to put on muscle mass right? If you want advice for pec development. Squats and deadlifts.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Warboss Alex

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Paused bench if your tris are stronger than your chest. 2 sec pause at the bottom, 3 x 5
 

Mjazz

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get some db flys in there for mass, switch up with barbells every other week to keep pecs guessing. Do some friggin dips, weighted if you can
 

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Widen your grip?
 
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