"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sir Drinksalot

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Since breakup with gf 5 or 6 months ago I've been very dedicated to working out. I can only get there 2x per week, but with my rather slow recovery rate, it works. I've been getting noticed by a lot of broads who were indifferent to me before.

My pecs are lagging behind. I werigh 230 but only can bench approx. 255 right now. My tris are stronger than guys who bench 80-100lbs more than I do (I french pressed 90 pounds 9 times on Sunday) but my chest is lagging behind, visibly, even though it's what I value the most.

Suggestions?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mjazz

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well i hope with working 2x a week ur doing full body workout each day, then that would be fine. Are you sure your not working your chest TOO much? if not, then you should try a 3 day split, one workout every 2 days. Chest tris abs
back bis forearms legs shoulders, and on those restdays you can do pull ups and pushups and situps and leg lifts and bodysquats, just not intense, enough to get a small small burn. That has done wonders for me.

Are you working your back? Your chest cant get any bigger if your lats are lagging, work those lats man. In your chest workout do DIPS, flat bench, INCLINE bench ( important) and some flys, then its all good, DONT OVERTRAIN, eat well rest well good luck
 

EFFORT

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Get your bench in the 300s for reps
 

John_Galt

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You know you don't have to lift a lot to put on muscle mass right? If you want advice for pec development. Squats and deadlifts.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Warboss Alex

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Paused bench if your tris are stronger than your chest. 2 sec pause at the bottom, 3 x 5
 

Mjazz

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get some db flys in there for mass, switch up with barbells every other week to keep pecs guessing. Do some friggin dips, weighted if you can
 

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Widen your grip?
 
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