Killer_Demo
Don Juan
whats up fellow DJ's, i go to this site quite often, but i had a quick question and that is what is peacocking? i have searched all over and came up with nothing. thanks
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
peacocking
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Derek Flint
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It's dressing up in a flamboyant way.
Usually done by "Try hards"
A look that says "Look at me! Look at meeeeeee!"
Think Dennis Rodman.
Usually done by "Try hards"
A look that says "Look at me! Look at meeeeeee!"
Think Dennis Rodman.
Alphathree
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Look up MysteryMethod.com if you want to see real peacocking.
Personally I just try to look a bit different than everyone else without being tryhard.
Personally I just try to look a bit different than everyone else without being tryhard.
Derek Flint
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I remember when Mystery came to speak/promote his Workshop at my local Lair.
Seeing all those guys wearing "New Rock" boots like Mystery's was too funny.
Seeing all those guys wearing "New Rock" boots like Mystery's was too funny.
naoi deag se deag
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I actually like New Rocks.... is there something wrong with me?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It's bulking up and looking ****ing big and then flexing so people notice you. **** clothes that get attention, you should have a biceps that get attention.
Reason 1: Girls don't want to feel a psychadelic shirt, but they do want to feel a bulging biceps
Reason 2: You'll be ****ing alpha in a natural way. A dressed up guy with no testicles can get interupted by other guys who want some action with the girl. If you are bulked up they don't ****ing dare.. which leads to reason 3...
Reason 3: Guys think a guy who dresses strange are gay. Guys look up to other guys who are big. Unless those guys are computer geeks in that case they will loathe. In either case, they will not **** with your atempt to get a girl.
Reason 4: Peacocking sounds like Pee ****... and girls like no peeing ****s unless they are very kinky.
Reason 1: Girls don't want to feel a psychadelic shirt, but they do want to feel a bulging biceps
Reason 2: You'll be ****ing alpha in a natural way. A dressed up guy with no testicles can get interupted by other guys who want some action with the girl. If you are bulked up they don't ****ing dare.. which leads to reason 3...
Reason 3: Guys think a guy who dresses strange are gay. Guys look up to other guys who are big. Unless those guys are computer geeks in that case they will loathe. In either case, they will not **** with your atempt to get a girl.
Reason 4: Peacocking sounds like Pee ****... and girls like no peeing ****s unless they are very kinky.