"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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whats up fellow DJ's, i go to this site quite often, but i had a quick question and that is what is peacocking? i have searched all over and came up with nothing. thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's dressing up in a flamboyant way.

Usually done by "Try hards"

A look that says "Look at me! Look at meeeeeee!"

Think Dennis Rodman.
 

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Look up MysteryMethod.com if you want to see real peacocking.

Personally I just try to look a bit different than everyone else without being tryhard.
 

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I remember when Mystery came to speak/promote his Workshop at my local Lair.

Seeing all those guys wearing "New Rock" boots like Mystery's was too funny.
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
I remember when Mystery came to speak/promote his Workshop at my local Lair.

Seeing all those guys wearing "New Rock" boots like Mystery's was too funny.
I actually like New Rocks.... is there something wrong with me? ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's bulking up and looking ****ing big and then flexing so people notice you. **** clothes that get attention, you should have a biceps that get attention.

Reason 1: Girls don't want to feel a psychadelic shirt, but they do want to feel a bulging biceps

Reason 2: You'll be ****ing alpha in a natural way. A dressed up guy with no testicles can get interupted by other guys who want some action with the girl. If you are bulked up they don't ****ing dare.. which leads to reason 3...

Reason 3: Guys think a guy who dresses strange are gay. Guys look up to other guys who are big. Unless those guys are computer geeks in that case they will loathe. In either case, they will not **** with your atempt to get a girl.

Reason 4: Peacocking sounds like Pee ****... and girls like no peeing ****s unless they are very kinky.
 
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