"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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whats up fellow DJ's, i go to this site quite often, but i had a quick question and that is what is peacocking? i have searched all over and came up with nothing. thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's dressing up in a flamboyant way.

Usually done by "Try hards"

A look that says "Look at me! Look at meeeeeee!"

Think Dennis Rodman.
 

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Look up MysteryMethod.com if you want to see real peacocking.

Personally I just try to look a bit different than everyone else without being tryhard.
 

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I remember when Mystery came to speak/promote his Workshop at my local Lair.

Seeing all those guys wearing "New Rock" boots like Mystery's was too funny.
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
I remember when Mystery came to speak/promote his Workshop at my local Lair.

Seeing all those guys wearing "New Rock" boots like Mystery's was too funny.
I actually like New Rocks.... is there something wrong with me? ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's bulking up and looking ****ing big and then flexing so people notice you. **** clothes that get attention, you should have a biceps that get attention.

Reason 1: Girls don't want to feel a psychadelic shirt, but they do want to feel a bulging biceps

Reason 2: You'll be ****ing alpha in a natural way. A dressed up guy with no testicles can get interupted by other guys who want some action with the girl. If you are bulked up they don't ****ing dare.. which leads to reason 3...

Reason 3: Guys think a guy who dresses strange are gay. Guys look up to other guys who are big. Unless those guys are computer geeks in that case they will loathe. In either case, they will not **** with your atempt to get a girl.

Reason 4: Peacocking sounds like Pee ****... and girls like no peeing ****s unless they are very kinky.
 
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