"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Peacocking

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I generally take it to mean dressing to gain attention... could be something as simple as wearing sunglasses or a pink shirt (most guys don't do it and it actually looks good on me :cool: ) or something elaborate like wearing a top hat and swimming goggles (like "Mystery"). It really just sets you apart from the crowd and will gain you just a TAD bit more attention.
 

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Yea that **** doesn't work sorry my friends who are girls I've talked to say you get the attention of the crowd but its the kind of attention where they laugh at you. like last weekend there was this fool with a cowboy hat needless to say he got no ass and my friend was saying that he was retarded for wearing something like that to a party
Peacocking is just GAY:down:

HEY instead of peacocking wear a suit or blazer. It is better than what everyone else is wearing and you look classy think of James Bond:cool:
 

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Downman1 said:
Yea that **** doesn't work sorry my friends who are girls I've talked to say you get the attention of the crowd but its the kind of attention where they laugh at you. like last weekend there was this fool with a cowboy hat needless to say he got no ass and my friend was saying that he was retarded for wearing something like that to a party
Peacocking is just GAY:down:

HEY instead of peacocking wear a suit or blazer. It is better than what everyone else is wearing and you look classy think of James Bond:cool:
Wrong . Just because you saw a dude wearing cowboy hat and not getting ass is not proof that peacock doesnt work . He was probably chode and uncomfortable with that hat .

Sometimes i peacock too . Im not saying that i look like Mystery , but i always have something interesting on me (ie necklace , interesting shirt etc . )

When i peacock , most of the time i wear my hat that looks like this . Its just fully black .

http://www.sistasofine.com/2007/05/jamacian-mafia-hat.html

It happens that i can open girls with crappy openers . And they allow me to build comfort just to ask me WTF is that .

And with peacock , you stand out from other guys . You're not THE NEXT CHUMP .

Peacocking works . Period . Its all about how you think of it . If you think that you look like clown , others will think that you're clown . If you think you look like a rockstar , others will think you're rockstar.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Wrong . Just because you saw a dude wearing cowboy hat and not getting ass is not proof that peacock doesnt work . He was probably chode and uncomfortable with that hat .

Sometimes i peacock too . Im not saying that i look like Mystery , but i always have something interesting on me (ie necklace , interesting shirt etc . )

When i peacock , most of the time i wear my hat that looks like this . Its just fully black .

http://www.sistasofine.com/2007/05/jamacian-mafia-hat.html

It happens that i can open girls with crappy openers . And they allow me to build comfort just to ask me WTF is that .

And with peacock , you stand out from other guys . You're not THE NEXT CHUMP .

Peacocking works . Period . Its all about how you think of it . If you think that you look like clown , others will think that you're clown . If you think you look like a rockstar , others will think you're rockstar.
I just have to say thats a cool hat.
It is sooo PUA.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thats what i'm saying stand out by wearing a suit not a gay ass colorful shirt. red works but that all you do don't wear a hat thats stupid. its like fly fishing the flys that work the best are the best tied flies of the bug thats native to the area. you cant catch **** if you throw a an fly that is different than all the others and has bright colors like pink and ****. wtf.
 

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Downman1 said:
thats what i'm saying stand out by wearing a suit not a gay ass colorful shirt. red works but that all you do don't wear a hat thats stupid. its like fly fishing the flys that work the best are the best tied flies of the bug thats native to the area. you cant catch **** if you throw a an fly that is different than all the others and has bright colors like pink and ****. wtf.
Have you ever worn a hat and flashy colors in the field or is this just your opinion?
I'm betting its the latter
 

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I wore a headband, sunglasses and a string of mardi gras beads one night and had everybody in the bar talking to me. Just matters how you play the part.
 
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