Bloke
Senior Don Juan
I occasionally see this term in this forum.
What does it mean ?
What does it mean ?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Peacocking
- Thread starter Bloke
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I generally take it to mean dressing to gain attention... could be something as simple as wearing sunglasses or a pink shirt (most guys don't do it and it actually looks good on me 
) or something elaborate like wearing a top hat and swimming goggles (like "Mystery"). It really just sets you apart from the crowd and will gain you just a TAD bit more attention.
) or something elaborate like wearing a top hat and swimming goggles (like "Mystery"). It really just sets you apart from the crowd and will gain you just a TAD bit more attention.Yea that **** doesn't work sorry my friends who are girls I've talked to say you get the attention of the crowd but its the kind of attention where they laugh at you. like last weekend there was this fool with a cowboy hat needless to say he got no ass and my friend was saying that he was retarded for wearing something like that to a party
Peacocking is just GAY
HEY instead of peacocking wear a suit or blazer. It is better than what everyone else is wearing and you look classy think of James Bond
Peacocking is just GAY
HEY instead of peacocking wear a suit or blazer. It is better than what everyone else is wearing and you look classy think of James Bond
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Wrong . Just because you saw a dude wearing cowboy hat and not getting ass is not proof that peacock doesnt work . He was probably chode and uncomfortable with that hat .Downman1 said:Yea that **** doesn't work sorry my friends who are girls I've talked to say you get the attention of the crowd but its the kind of attention where they laugh at you. like last weekend there was this fool with a cowboy hat needless to say he got no ass and my friend was saying that he was retarded for wearing something like that to a party
Peacocking is just GAY
HEY instead of peacocking wear a suit or blazer. It is better than what everyone else is wearing and you look classy think of James Bond
Sometimes i peacock too . Im not saying that i look like Mystery , but i always have something interesting on me (ie necklace , interesting shirt etc . )
When i peacock , most of the time i wear my hat that looks like this . Its just fully black .
http://www.sistasofine.com/2007/05/jamacian-mafia-hat.html
It happens that i can open girls with crappy openers . And they allow me to build comfort just to ask me WTF is that .
And with peacock , you stand out from other guys . You're not THE NEXT CHUMP .
Peacocking works . Period . Its all about how you think of it . If you think that you look like clown , others will think that you're clown . If you think you look like a rockstar , others will think you're rockstar.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
thats what i'm saying stand out by wearing a suit not a gay ass colorful shirt. red works but that all you do don't wear a hat thats stupid. its like fly fishing the flys that work the best are the best tied flies of the bug thats native to the area. you cant catch **** if you throw a an fly that is different than all the others and has bright colors like pink and ****. wtf.