"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Peacocking

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I generally take it to mean dressing to gain attention... could be something as simple as wearing sunglasses or a pink shirt (most guys don't do it and it actually looks good on me :cool: ) or something elaborate like wearing a top hat and swimming goggles (like "Mystery"). It really just sets you apart from the crowd and will gain you just a TAD bit more attention.
 

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Yea that **** doesn't work sorry my friends who are girls I've talked to say you get the attention of the crowd but its the kind of attention where they laugh at you. like last weekend there was this fool with a cowboy hat needless to say he got no ass and my friend was saying that he was retarded for wearing something like that to a party
Peacocking is just GAY:down:

HEY instead of peacocking wear a suit or blazer. It is better than what everyone else is wearing and you look classy think of James Bond:cool:
 

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Downman1 said:
Yea that **** doesn't work sorry my friends who are girls I've talked to say you get the attention of the crowd but its the kind of attention where they laugh at you. like last weekend there was this fool with a cowboy hat needless to say he got no ass and my friend was saying that he was retarded for wearing something like that to a party
Peacocking is just GAY:down:

HEY instead of peacocking wear a suit or blazer. It is better than what everyone else is wearing and you look classy think of James Bond:cool:
Wrong . Just because you saw a dude wearing cowboy hat and not getting ass is not proof that peacock doesnt work . He was probably chode and uncomfortable with that hat .

Sometimes i peacock too . Im not saying that i look like Mystery , but i always have something interesting on me (ie necklace , interesting shirt etc . )

When i peacock , most of the time i wear my hat that looks like this . Its just fully black .

http://www.sistasofine.com/2007/05/jamacian-mafia-hat.html

It happens that i can open girls with crappy openers . And they allow me to build comfort just to ask me WTF is that .

And with peacock , you stand out from other guys . You're not THE NEXT CHUMP .

Peacocking works . Period . Its all about how you think of it . If you think that you look like clown , others will think that you're clown . If you think you look like a rockstar , others will think you're rockstar.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Wrong . Just because you saw a dude wearing cowboy hat and not getting ass is not proof that peacock doesnt work . He was probably chode and uncomfortable with that hat .

Sometimes i peacock too . Im not saying that i look like Mystery , but i always have something interesting on me (ie necklace , interesting shirt etc . )

When i peacock , most of the time i wear my hat that looks like this . Its just fully black .

http://www.sistasofine.com/2007/05/jamacian-mafia-hat.html

It happens that i can open girls with crappy openers . And they allow me to build comfort just to ask me WTF is that .

And with peacock , you stand out from other guys . You're not THE NEXT CHUMP .

Peacocking works . Period . Its all about how you think of it . If you think that you look like clown , others will think that you're clown . If you think you look like a rockstar , others will think you're rockstar.
I just have to say thats a cool hat.
It is sooo PUA.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thats what i'm saying stand out by wearing a suit not a gay ass colorful shirt. red works but that all you do don't wear a hat thats stupid. its like fly fishing the flys that work the best are the best tied flies of the bug thats native to the area. you cant catch **** if you throw a an fly that is different than all the others and has bright colors like pink and ****. wtf.
 

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Downman1 said:
thats what i'm saying stand out by wearing a suit not a gay ass colorful shirt. red works but that all you do don't wear a hat thats stupid. its like fly fishing the flys that work the best are the best tied flies of the bug thats native to the area. you cant catch **** if you throw a an fly that is different than all the others and has bright colors like pink and ****. wtf.
Have you ever worn a hat and flashy colors in the field or is this just your opinion?
I'm betting its the latter
 

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I wore a headband, sunglasses and a string of mardi gras beads one night and had everybody in the bar talking to me. Just matters how you play the part.
 
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