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What's your stance on this?
Been dating this one for about 5 months now, high IL, good looking, very caring, minimal red flags
Having a good time but still screening - shes pushing the exclusive claims but i'm still taking it steady
One bugbear..... Its ALWAYS me paying for dates, food, drinks etc. Besides one bottle of aftershave she bought when we first started dating she hasn't really done anything else, she brings me food into work once in a blue moon but other than that its few and far between.
Whenever we decide to go out etc it is me suggesting where and me getting my wallet out with no real offer of contribution from her part
Now I do earn more money than her and I am in a managerial position but IMO this shouldn't affect it, its the thought that counts.. I'm not saying she has to buy me a car etc but you get my drift.
How would you combat this? Haven't addressed it yet as its a bit of a grey area
But when you have been with females prior, who always split or pay, buy things for you etc - I feel a bit uncomfortable on this basis
What's your stance on this?
Been dating this one for about 5 months now, high IL, good looking, very caring, minimal red flags
Having a good time but still screening - shes pushing the exclusive claims but i'm still taking it steady
One bugbear..... Its ALWAYS me paying for dates, food, drinks etc. Besides one bottle of aftershave she bought when we first started dating she hasn't really done anything else, she brings me food into work once in a blue moon but other than that its few and far between.
Whenever we decide to go out etc it is me suggesting where and me getting my wallet out with no real offer of contribution from her part
Now I do earn more money than her and I am in a managerial position but IMO this shouldn't affect it, its the thought that counts.. I'm not saying she has to buy me a car etc but you get my drift.
How would you combat this? Haven't addressed it yet as its a bit of a grey area
But when you have been with females prior, who always split or pay, buy things for you etc - I feel a bit uncomfortable on this basis