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Paying for bedroom fun, is the only option for physically unattractive men?

Ugly bastard

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I know I’ll cop some heat for this, but who cares, anyway I’m of the view that physically repulsive men (that no women want), are just better off paying for s*x, rather than wasting their time, money and sanity trying to pick up women they have no chance with.

Me personally, as an ugly looking man who has had no luck with the ladies (too many instant rejection), I said **** it, I will pay a mature age lady of the night and that’s what I have been doing for the last 35 years, and I have to say the sex has been mostly terrific, absolutely XXX rated porn star stuff.
 

We_ArE_VeNOM

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I know I’ll cop some heat for this, but who cares, anyway I’m of the view that physically repulsive men (that no women want), are just better off paying for s*x, rather than wasting their time, money and sanity trying to pick up women they have no chance with.
Ehhh. Depends.

Go to the gym, turn that fat into muscle, and watch how things tend to change.

Me personally, as an ugly looking man who has had no luck with the ladies (too many instant rejection)
Ehhh. Depends.

Go to the gym, turn that fat into muscle, and watch how things tend to change.

, I said **** it, I will pay a mature age lady of the night and that’s what I have been doing for the last 35 years, and I have to say the sex has been mostly terrific, absolutely XXX rated porn star stuff.
I agree/disagree.

1. Tricking as a way of life (as the only means of getting action).

2. Tricking as a way of life (although you have no problem getting free action as well).

3. Not tricking at all (just free action).

Sounds like you fall under #1.

I fall under #2.

Of course, I can get much MORE in depth with that part of my life...but to make a long story short...

There was this chick that I dealt with..we had a $30 blow & go arrangement.

I would go over her crib, she would suck me off in her bathroom, I would CashApp her $30, and be out the door.

Just as simple as that. Not much talking. Just a Facebook message of "WYD", and we both know what that means.

If only life was that simple.

So, there is a need for the #2 option, yes of course.

But a full scale lifestyle of it, nah.

Not for me.
 

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I know I’ll cop some heat for this, but who cares, anyway I’m of the view that physically repulsive men (that no women want), are just better off paying for s*x, rather than wasting their time, money and sanity trying to pick up women they have no chance with.

Me personally, as an ugly looking man who has had no luck with the ladies (too many instant rejection), I said **** it, I will pay a mature age lady of the night and that’s what I have been doing for the last 35 years, and I have to say the sex has been mostly terrific, absolutely XXX rated porn star stuff.
If it works and you can afford it, I’d do it myself.
 

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I know I’ll cop some heat for this, but who cares, anyway I’m of the view that physically repulsive men (that no women want), are just better off paying for s*x, rather than wasting their time, money and sanity trying to pick up women they have no chance with.

Me personally, as an ugly looking man who has had no luck with the ladies (too many instant rejection), I said **** it, I will pay a mature age lady of the night and that’s what I have been doing for the last 35 years, and I have to say the sex has been mostly terrific, absolutely XXX rated porn star stuff.
With a bad attitude like that, no wonder why you aren’t getting any women without paying. Have you ever thought of maybe improving yourself? You sound like my older fat cousin. Instead of putting in the work to improve himself, he would rather pay women to fVck him.
 

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I’ve gotten the impression that even hookers don’t want unattractive men. An incel buddy & I went to a strip club a couple of years ago. We were sitting together at a booth. One of the girls came by, chatted me up a bit & offereed ‘for a hundred dollars, you can take me into the back and do whatever you want with me.’. I declined. She didn’t bother asking my friend, in fact, she treated him like he didn’t exist.
 

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I’ve gotten the impression that even hookers don’t want unattractive men. An incel buddy & I went to a strip club a couple of years ago. We were sitting together at a booth. One of the girls came by, chatted me up a bit & offereed ‘for a hundred dollars, you can take me into the back and do whatever you want with me.’. I declined. She didn’t bother asking my friend, in fact, she treated him like he didn’t exist.
I think a stripper talking to different guys in a room is different than going one to one with a hooker in a brothel or at his place. If the OP was sitting next to you in the same scenario then he likely would have got ignored too. If you noticed he is specifically saying middle-aged hookers so he's not looking at young barely legals or even colleage aged for likely the reasons they have an attitude that spoils everything.
 

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I know I’ll cop some heat for this, but who cares, anyway I’m of the view that physically repulsive men (that no women want), are just better off paying for s*x, rather than wasting their time, money and sanity trying to pick up women they have no chance with.

Me personally, as an ugly looking man who has had no luck with the ladies (too many instant rejection), I said **** it, I will pay a mature age lady of the night and that’s what I have been doing for the last 35 years, and I have to say the sex has been mostly terrific, absolutely XXX rated porn star stuff.
Are you trying to dethrone me here? Who are you?
 

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I think a stripper talking to different guys in a room is different than going one to one with a hooker in a brothel or at his place. If the OP was sitting next to you in the same scenario then he likely would have got ignored too. If you noticed he is specifically saying middle-aged hookers so he's not looking at young barely legals or even colleage aged for likely the reasons they have an attitude that spoils everything.
fair point.
 

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I find it hard to believe that any high school college or office worker can't find an office slut to bang instead of paying for it or use game that he learned on here to hook up with a hottie.
 

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With a bad attitude like that, no wonder why you aren’t getting any women without paying. Have you ever thought of maybe improving yourself? You sound like my older fat cousin. Instead of putting in the work to improve himself, he would rather pay women to fVck him.
For your information, I have and all that ended up happening was that I was an ugly man with a good body, but women still rejected me.

Your attitude has no impact on your dating success, I have approached woman with positive, confident attitude, and still got brutally rejected.
 

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Me personally, as an ugly looking man who has had no luck with the ladies (too many instant rejection), I said **** it, I will pay a mature age lady of the night and that’s what I have been doing for the last 35 years, and I have to say the sex has been mostly terrific, absolutely XXX rated porn star stuff.
You need to work on your self confidence to begin with which from both your post here and your choice if username "Ugly bastard" pretty much tell me you must be a rock bottom. You need to work on that and also as other guys tel you here in the forum thread hit the gym and work n your physcial self. You be surprised what happens if you stick out long enough to get results in improved shape and in the results you get from women.
 

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Ehhh. Depends.

Go to the gym, turn that fat into muscle, and watch how things tend to change.



Ehhh. Depends.

Go to the gym, turn that fat into muscle, and watch how things tend to change.



I agree/disagree.

1. Tricking as a way of life (as the only means of getting action).

2. Tricking as a way of life (although you have no problem getting free action as well).

3. Not tricking at all (just free action).

Sounds like you fall under #1.

I fall under #2.

Of course, I can get much MORE in depth with that part of my life...but to make a long story short...

There was this chick that I dealt with..we had a $30 blow & go arrangement.

I would go over her crib, she would suck me off in her bathroom, I would CashApp her $30, and be out the door.

Just as simple as that. Not much talking. Just a Facebook message of "WYD", and we both know what that means.

If only life was that simple.

So, there is a need for the #2 option, yes of course.

But a full scale lifestyle of it, nah.

Not for me.
Oke,lately you seem to be on fire bro.

I agree. Hooker sex can and should be like getting fast food. You still need some "healthy food" in other to stay healthy. If you are a hyper sexual person, a hokker here and there can be exiting.

I’ve gotten the impression that even hookers don’t want unattractive men. An incel buddy & I went to a strip club a couple of years ago. We were sitting together at a booth. One of the girls came by, chatted me up a bit & offereed ‘for a hundred dollars, you can take me into the back and do whatever you want with me.’. I declined. She didn’t bother asking my friend, in fact, she treated him like he didn’t exist.
Yes.A hooker = a woman. A woman will always judge you. If she doesn't like you, she will/might be professional enough to hide her discomfort to some degree. But even finding the right type.of hooker can be quite the task.

When we used to visit brothels we would dress up like we were giong to a IG model ls only festival; fresh clothes ,well groomed and smelling good. The better you look, the better your experience will be; like with every other woman.
 

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Imo men over estimate the importance of being handsome. Character/charm, physique, wisdom and intellect, strenght and courage and probably a whole lot i forget are equally if not more important than a pretty face for a man.

Believe me, you could be that pretty guy you wished you'd be, and later down the road you'll still get played, go on lengthy dryspells, be insecure and you'll stilll have a infinite list of things you'd wished were better.

I do think that OP is at least making it work for him personally. That's step 1. Step 2 and more would be gaining enough confidence to pull a woman and provide yourself with some free poosy. Might mot be the most beautiful women , but realism is key. If you are a 5 why cant you be happy dating a 5? Hookers will always be there as your back up plan.
 
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