Paying for a date

[psychgrad]

How does one make sure that the girl will pay for half the bill. This girl asked me if I wanted to go to this fancy restaurant that she has been wanting to go to, but i refuse to pay 50+ for her. I do not want to be in a situation where we finish dinner and not knowing if i have to pay all of it.

I like to go to fancy resturants and try new restaurants but there is no way I am going to pay for her as a first date.

 

[Brian20o2]

If a girl wants to go to a fancy restaurant let her go, if you want to go make sure she knows your not paying $50+ for her broke ass.

 

[Ace of Flames]

just let her know before it even gets started.

"i hope u know u're pitching in for the bill. i aint funding the waiter's paycheck by myself."

if u say it in a funny way, it probably wont come across with u lookin like a cheapskate.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Originally posted by psychgrad
I like to go to fancy resturants and try new restaurants but there is no way I am going to pay for her as a first date.

Offer to take her out for coffee or something el cheapo like that. If she refutes your offer then you know the kind of girl you're dealing with and can plan accordingly.

Cram a double cheeseburger down her throat followed up with dessert of hot man chowder. It's all self indulgent kunts like that are worth for anyway. Treat her as such. Every guy following your load will thank you immensely!

 

[neonlandmine]

I always say I'm a feminist(which I am, strangely enough). Either way, just bring it up on the phone before the date or at the begining of the date.

If going 50/50 makes you feel like a cheapskate have her pay for the first date, you pay for the 2nd.

If she throws a hissy fit, next her. You shouldn't have to pay for your time with her.

 

[psychgrad]

thanks guys i will let her know tomorrow.

 

[Gonzalo]

As a FIRST date?

Dude, you shouldn't be spending more than $10 on that first gathering. It's not about how much cash or toys you can flash, it's about your game and getting her to feel things. You don't wanna get thrown in the bag with all the other suckers who take her out "to dinner and a movie", don't cha?

 

[psychgrad]

She is in one of my classes and have gaming her ever since. She would always give me IOIs, for example, She says " I am going to the movies tomorrow I wish i could go with someone". I would just stay quiet, then I guess finally she just straight out asked me.