So CGA thinks that pay for play/ prostitution is the wave of the future. The whole game and charisma era is over. I tend to agree with him. Women have largely monetized their sexuality. Running game is obsolete for the most part.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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So CGA thinks that pay for play/ prostitution is the wave of the future. The whole game and charisma era is over. I tend to agree with him. Women have largely monetized their sexuality. Running game is obsolete for the most part.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
lolol i hope it is. I will buy the Gordita Latina 3000
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Lol in most situations of marriage this was the case, if you didn't provide cyaaa
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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There's no way I'll watch a 2 hour video, but I will comment on what you wrote.
Pay for play/ prostitution has been a thing since the dawn of mankind, I bet it happened before currency was even a concept. It's nothing new, it has been there for a long time, it's here now and will be there into the unforeseeable future. Parallel to this there has also been "game" or in other words trading your personality for companionship and sex.
It should come as no surprise to anyone that nothing is free. Prostitution is the exchange of only material goods for sex and just sex. In a normal relationship we get sex and companionship for providing more than just material value where the emphasis is on the immaterial. We could stretch the definition of prostitution to encompass anything that isn't sex for literally nothing, but by such a definition prostitution has always been the norm and we lose the distinction that prostitution is sex in exchange for material goods only.
If there are counterpoints to this voiced in the video, feel free to write it for me, I don't have the time to sit through watching it.
Pay for play/ prostitution has been a thing since the dawn of mankind, I bet it happened before currency was even a concept. It's nothing new, it has been there for a long time, it's here now and will be there into the unforeseeable future. Parallel to this there has also been "game" or in other words trading your personality for companionship and sex.
It should come as no surprise to anyone that nothing is free. Prostitution is the exchange of only material goods for sex and just sex. In a normal relationship we get sex and companionship for providing more than just material value where the emphasis is on the immaterial. We could stretch the definition of prostitution to encompass anything that isn't sex for literally nothing, but by such a definition prostitution has always been the norm and we lose the distinction that prostitution is sex in exchange for material goods only.
If there are counterpoints to this voiced in the video, feel free to write it for me, I don't have the time to sit through watching it.
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I'm not going to watch a 2 hour video, but a very obvious counterpoint is that there are indeed many, many things that are free for women.
Serenity
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Only because so many men are cheap, thankfully women aren't that interested in cheap men. So yeah, it's free, but mostly undesirable.
A lot of women usually get knocked up by broke men and then so looking for men with money to help raise their kid(s).
Serenity
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Yup, that's how cheap men are. Not only free, but bleeding money, being of negative value. Being as undesirable as a man can be.
To be clear, the man himself is undesirable in this case, his material value weighs up for his negative immaterial value. Basically the money he provides is just enough to tolerate how disgusting she finds him.
That's why I will always say that flaunting money is the worst idea ever to win over a woman. If she thinks you have little to nothing of material value to offer and she still desires you then you may keep her around for a very long time.
Men generally seem to offer flowers, chocolate, expensive dinners, things, rings and whatever else can be bought for money. Thinking that women appreciate the person giving them things of material value like men would, but they don't because they're women, not men. They appreciate the material things, but not the man providing it. A woman will only ever appreciate a man for the immaterial things he provides and not all women cares about that to begin with.
Women with kids warrants extra skepticism, their main priority is to provide for the child. If they are unable to adequately do so by themselves then most likely you as a man are there to provide for her so she can provide for the child.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Very wise words. I never had much money. So all the puzzy I stumbled into was because of me. But this gets harder to do as you age and lose your looks. Past a certain age its all what you can bring financially.
AttackFormation
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That will be the second sexual revolution.
Hundreds of years in the future, companion robots will basically function autonomously like a normal human so you can live with them fully. The difference is theyll be engineered to lack the negative traits humans have, so there wont be infidelity, family breakup, personality disorder or mental illness. Theyll have pleasant personalities, a custom appearance, and an engineered fondness for you personally - not so much that it feels unrealistic, it will be calibrated to be natural. If you want kids then dna sequences will be generated to match your companion bot's appearance, which is then mixed with your own, and the resulting dna will be grown into your shared children in artificial wombs.
The men of that future will look back at us and "dating" like we look back at the pre-modern era and their "medicine": fumbling around, doing more harm than good, before the scientific, reliable process could be developed.
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Or this increasingly unstable looking thing called civilisation collapse we're running around hunting rats and chewing weeds and abducting woman and dragging them back to our parking building caves. Lot of concrete in a parking building Roman concrete is still around 2000 years later
I would agree only if the woman wants to make it legal.
But if a man if in good shape financially and meets a hot woman and wants to f her I would say throw the bucks down, dinner, movie, whatever. Got to use what use you have, some guys don’t have game, height, best looks, but have cash. I would say go for it.
But if the woman want to make it legal, marriage / cohabiting or whatever, the man tells her they start from 0 and her cash out value is 0.
Haha bro you just might be right. Trippy thought
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
I have never done any of the above for a woman not even my 4 year LTR she would be lucky if i bought her a bottle of a wine once a month
Guess what by not engaging in them transactional relationship dynamics i quickly weed out gold diggers and narcissistic women and find quality ones faster
Shock horror The right woman doesn't need to know how much money you have or what you can provide for her
She literally just needs to be attracted to you and for you to be able to dominate both your world and hers
Problem is a huge proportion of men are so weak and pathetic these days they would rather try and "buy" her affection
But make no mistake there will ALWAYS be demand for a man that can make her pu$$y tingle without using money
ALWAYS
Blacksheep
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There is some really sexy sex dolls out there... I wanna try it someday for sure! haha
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
And money and status boyfriends will be cheated with that guy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
They are encouraged to run crazy. Fvck what a man thinks. If she's not married she's single. They don't care how their actions will effect their man.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
That's the new way. The old way gets taken advantage of and used.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.