"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Paul Walker Died

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Malice said:
That's what happens when you drive too fast. Life is not a movie.
I was thinking about this, but after hearing about what witnesses heard, it may not have been him driving. The vehicle he drive was a rear engined Porsche, which tend to make inexperienced drivers slide out of control easier (he left with another person with the intention of taking a five minute drive, it is speculated it wasn't Walker driving).

Porsches in general mostly have their own little quirks drivers need to be aware of, such as the 944's tendency to hydroplane at the slightest bit of water on the road.

I'd like to see who was actually behind the wheel. The witnesses said they heard the engine rev up way high and then the crash. Had Walker been driving, I'm sure he wouldn't have allowed the engine to rev up that high. I may be wrong though.

And despite they douchey characters he played on film, off-screen he was a pretty good guy. Had his own charity, never really did any of that dysfunctional crap most stars get into.

RIP dude.

Oh and guys, if you want to drive fast, do it on the track. Imagine if his vehicle his someone on the street. The track is more fun anyway.
 

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Malice said:
That's what happens when you drive too fast. Life is not a movie.
Life is very much a movie. Everyone lives it different. In other words to each his own. If I throw any more cliches might have to write the next blockbuster. All I need is another writers strike.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I wonder how many people got injured or killed because that douchebag made a career out of glorifying unsafe driving.
 

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I heard on the news, he was not experienced enough for the car.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fatal Jay said:
I heard on the news, he was not experienced enough for the car.
Mike32ct said:
Celebrities have the money for fast exotic cars but usually not the training and experience to drive them.
This is true in some cases, but a reputable dealer will strongly recommend taking lessons.

As I said before, most Porches have quirks that need to be addressed. The one that was involved in this accident had a tendency to spin out from the rear end due to engine placement.
 

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Vice said:
This is true in some cases, but a reputable dealer will strongly recommend taking lessons.

As I said before, most Porches have quirks that need to be addressed. The one that was involved in this accident had a tendency to spin out from the rear end due to engine placement.
Sounds like you're thinking of the 911 with it's aft engine pendulum effect. The CGT is simply a 610hp beast that is notorious for losing traction if one is not absolutely judicious with the throttle application. Even Walter Röhrl found the CGT scary calling it "one of the most dangerous cars on the road".

This seems like a pretty simple case of two guys screwing around and the CGT bit them bad. Not the first time, and won't be the last.
 

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Malice said:
That's what happens when you drive too fast. Life is not a movie.
He was not the driver.

I have pictures of his dead body. They're too graphic.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
It's ironic he died this way. RIP
Seriously.

Life intimidating art. In the movies though, he had 9 lives.

It's too bad. One minute you're a super stud living the dream, then in an instant it's all gone. Enjoy it while you can.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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