"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Paul Janka?

azanon

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Does anyone know if we ever heard from Paul Janka; the real-life Casanova from New York?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yea, the MSNBC big topic of debate? Yea...the guy deserves big props, imo. He is right to the point and straightforward. Sure, his tidbit in his ebook about having a girl tipsy isn't a good idea(Can do without in my opinion), everything else seems fine. ITs funny, on his thread in the forum on MSNBC.com, like 85% of the posters(Women) there criticize him just because he's frustrating their ego(being honest with women about not wanting to date them before hand, not being responsible for their feelings or overexpectations, being confident in himself, going for what he wants). But deep down, they'd say they wouldn't go for a guy like that, but in reality...they prolly would. Women don't want a loser...they want a winner and eventho some "players" are trash(lying womanizers who are too cowardly to let women know they're seeing other people)...they're much closer to a considered "winner" than a guy women can walk on.
 

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I just wonder if he made a big mistake going public. The masses continue to crucify him, but OTOH some opine that there's no such thing as bad press.
 

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^ True that.
Also, its fine that he's going public with this. Some guys really need that wake up call. Won't affect how we get women whatsoever.
 

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Back to my original question, I guess the answer was no. I asked Rollo T. personally as well with a "personal message" (since he said he was going to email Janka), but he ignored it as he has ignored PM's of mine in the past. I presume he just hasn't had time to respond since I'm the kind of person that likes to give someone the benefit of the doubt.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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