"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Paul Janka?

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Does anyone know if we ever heard from Paul Janka; the real-life Casanova from New York?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yea, the MSNBC big topic of debate? Yea...the guy deserves big props, imo. He is right to the point and straightforward. Sure, his tidbit in his ebook about having a girl tipsy isn't a good idea(Can do without in my opinion), everything else seems fine. ITs funny, on his thread in the forum on MSNBC.com, like 85% of the posters(Women) there criticize him just because he's frustrating their ego(being honest with women about not wanting to date them before hand, not being responsible for their feelings or overexpectations, being confident in himself, going for what he wants). But deep down, they'd say they wouldn't go for a guy like that, but in reality...they prolly would. Women don't want a loser...they want a winner and eventho some "players" are trash(lying womanizers who are too cowardly to let women know they're seeing other people)...they're much closer to a considered "winner" than a guy women can walk on.
 

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I just wonder if he made a big mistake going public. The masses continue to crucify him, but OTOH some opine that there's no such thing as bad press.
 

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^ True that.
Also, its fine that he's going public with this. Some guys really need that wake up call. Won't affect how we get women whatsoever.
 

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Back to my original question, I guess the answer was no. I asked Rollo T. personally as well with a "personal message" (since he said he was going to email Janka), but he ignored it as he has ignored PM's of mine in the past. I presume he just hasn't had time to respond since I'm the kind of person that likes to give someone the benefit of the doubt.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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