"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Paul Janka?

azanon

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Does anyone know if we ever heard from Paul Janka; the real-life Casanova from New York?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yea, the MSNBC big topic of debate? Yea...the guy deserves big props, imo. He is right to the point and straightforward. Sure, his tidbit in his ebook about having a girl tipsy isn't a good idea(Can do without in my opinion), everything else seems fine. ITs funny, on his thread in the forum on MSNBC.com, like 85% of the posters(Women) there criticize him just because he's frustrating their ego(being honest with women about not wanting to date them before hand, not being responsible for their feelings or overexpectations, being confident in himself, going for what he wants). But deep down, they'd say they wouldn't go for a guy like that, but in reality...they prolly would. Women don't want a loser...they want a winner and eventho some "players" are trash(lying womanizers who are too cowardly to let women know they're seeing other people)...they're much closer to a considered "winner" than a guy women can walk on.
 

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I just wonder if he made a big mistake going public. The masses continue to crucify him, but OTOH some opine that there's no such thing as bad press.
 

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^ True that.
Also, its fine that he's going public with this. Some guys really need that wake up call. Won't affect how we get women whatsoever.
 

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Back to my original question, I guess the answer was no. I asked Rollo T. personally as well with a "personal message" (since he said he was going to email Janka), but he ignored it as he has ignored PM's of mine in the past. I presume he just hasn't had time to respond since I'm the kind of person that likes to give someone the benefit of the doubt.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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