"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Patook app - No flirting allowed

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Patook

A new app that has been in development for a year lets you befriend others. It works a lot like Tinder so I'm told. Flirting isn't allowed and you can flag a message for flirting. Lol! :lol::rofl:

Story: http://lifehacker.com/this-app-works-like-tinder-except-its-for-making-plato-1797321957

Interesting Infographic.

Some stats from the infographic:
  • 1 in 3 US adults find it hard to make new friends
  • 4 in 10 women find it hard to make new platonic friends
  • 3 in 10 men find it hard to make new platonic friends
  • 1 in 2 US adults have moved in the past 5 years find it hard to make new friends
  • 1 in 3 US adults have been at the same place for more than 5 years find it hard to make new friends
Discuss.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I just installed it to see if people in my local area used it. It's full of lesbians, social justice warriors, feminists and far-right loonies.

And to verify your account, you need to take a photo of yourself holding a sign saying you will not flirt. Nuff said! Uninstall.
 

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I just find it ironic how these developers and marketers are looking to cash in or tap into the OLD scene by trying to make it not about dating with safe flirt-free friendzone connections with a Tinder GUI (guided user interface) functionality for the app.
 
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